How Much Time Does A Man Can Stau Without Sex?

How can a guy live without sex that long?
I dated a guy last year, we went out for a year, and we only kissed and never had sex.After a year I had to leave my job to get another one at 200 km far away, but we kept in touch we are still talking,  and now I want a sincere opinion.Everytime I post a sexy photo of myself he sends the adore button, I don't know if I really turn him on,if he is really horny or not, it is like he doesn't care about sex, is that normal for a 35 year old guy?He always says since we broke up that he is still single , that he is busy with work and doesn't have time for  a relationship. To make sure that he is not lying I video call him and he is most of the time home in bed.He lives alone but in the weekend he goes and stays with his parents at 50 km away from the city.After I went away from him he texts me more often, he is always there if I need an advice but never talks about sex or relationship.
When we first met 2 years ago he told me that he never had serious relationships before, I sometimes wonder if he told me the truth.When we were dating I didn't like him from the beginning he wasn't my type of man, but once I started to know him better I started to like him and be attracted to him, even though I never ask him why he never make a move on me and I felt the same way the he liked me as a woman especially when we were holding hands or walking really close to each other that our bodies felt the fire inside of us.
Now I feel kinda confunda because I will never know what his intentions really were, he likes my photos and says I am beautiful but nothing more.
And if he is really single how can he resist without sex for such a long time is that normal for a man who is still young, or does he have something to hide?
I forget to mention that he is a little religious he is raised as a christian maybe it has to do something with this?

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MasterTenth

by MasterTenth on Jan 1, 2025 at 4:08 PM

My honest opinion;

He is getting it from somewhere. My best guess is, he has something consistent, taboo and discreet. Possibly he is fucking his mother on the weekends at home you mentioned.

My advise; if you’re open minded to finding out what his little secret is, let him know you’re open minded and accepting of links and taboo secrets and ask him how he is meeting his sexual needs.

Very unlikely he doesn’t have a sexual outlet of some kind.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 1, 2025 at 5:28 PM

Not all men have a high sex drive. It's a stereotype that we're all horny raging wankers.

Could be testosterone levels; religious beliefs; or simply his confidence and experience levels may be low if he's never been in a relationship.

Or he could be fucking his mother like the hopeful comment above.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 1, 2025 at 5:35 PM

It's a stereotype that young men are sex-hungry wankers. Not all men are. It may be his religious beliefs playing a part; it could be his testosterone levels aren't so high which makes men less sexually aggressive. He simply may not be very confident if he's not had a serious relationship. The guy above is hoping for an i****t story. I'd put my money on porn being a more likely outlet for a single guy, suppressing his need for physical intimacy.

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Dagobert

by Dagobert on Jan 2, 2025 at 6:09 AM

He could have low testosterone. He might be waiting to get married. Or it could be some other physical problem.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 2, 2025 at 6:50 AM

Tbh, I'm a male unlike other guys confessing here. I don't have a big dick, it's about four inches long when hard, one inch flaccid.
My sexual energy outlet is masturbation. Girls say I have a boy penie and lol. I have been with two women for money.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 2, 2025 at 3:55 PM

Dagobert, if I think about it he did mention about marriage when we were dating asking me what I thought about marriage,but I was younger and unsure back then. If he wanted to get married why didn't he find another girl to date since I left him,just why?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 3, 2025 at 9:40 AM

Initiate sex by trying to give him head and see where that goes. I don't believe there is a man on the planet that could turn that down. If he is refusing head there is definitely a hidden issue.

He is likely: A) beating off all the time while watching porn B) Is fucking someone else C) Is in to guys D) Not interested in you any longer or never was E) A momma's boy
Move on to someone else before it is too late. I wouldn't concern myself with someone who does not reciprocate the same feelings and you will one day find yourself in your 30's, single and childless.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 4, 2025 at 5:11 AM

Anon no 7 I think you may be right,he is not worth my attention, I think if a man have feelings for a woman he would do anything to have that woman, he only told me lies never acted like he was in love of me. He is sure a momma's boy because he prefers to spend jos weekends with get than with me.
This kind a man deserves to remain single, because he will never make any sacrifice to have a healthy relationship with a woman, so maybe he should spend the rest of his life with his mother.

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