We've Opened Up Our Marriage And Added A Wife For The Two Of Us

In grad school I met a Colombian girl who was about to finish her degree and had not found a sponsor to stay for an internship, after graduation she had to return to Colombia. She was distraught, she didn't want to return, couldn't return. In a moment of pure anxiety she opened up to me, she was a lesbian and in her country that was a sentence to hell. Her family was already making arrangements for her to get married as soon as she returned home.

It occurred to me, I had a friend who had married a British girl for her to stay, what if she married me? She could stay. Facing deportation, she agreed, after I promised it was a marriage in name only. We got married legally, and filed for her papers. As long as she didn't leave, she could stay, pending her residency status.

For the obvious reason of presenting herself as being married she moved in with me after graduation. Her parents, and family in general, were dead set against her marriage. She was one hundred percent dependent on me. She got a job with her degree, and we set about pretending.

A year later she had her residency, still married, we played house. Separate bedrooms, but sex did happen more often than she admitted to. A transformation had come over her, her dependency had become emotional. Her demeanor had brightened, she no longer was nostalgic about Colombia. We did have to deal with her from time to time hard crushes on various girls. Five years passed, we had bought a house, she had had one more or less relationship, she was going to celebrate her 27th birthday.

She had this younger girl she was seeing, Teresa also Latina, and she was there when we went out to dinner. By then we had another couple of close friends. Teresa came along. At dinner the conversation shifted by our friends to our lifestyle, of having two women. They interpreted my wife's lady friends as splitting the sheets with us. Instead of setting things straight my wife egged on Teresa and they pretended that they share themselves with me.

That night, my wife came to me, she had talked to Teresa, if I wanted they would sleep with me. It was the first time I witnessed my wife's sexual aggressiveness, Teresa was much more passive about it. But definitely wanted me to have sex with her too, holding on to me she said in Spanish, 'I like men too'. After that night sex in our house became an open subject. My wife liked Teresa a lot and Teresa was all for it. Teresa was telling the truth, she liked sex with a man, and was open for sex when I wanted her.

My wife turns thirty, she's talking about having a child, or two. The idea of a temporary marriage is in the distant past. Teresa is part of the household, to our close friends no longer a secret lover with my wife. They bring up the subject, they would like to try, but the wife there is too inhibited to have sex with another woman. Not that my wife holds back from encouraging her.

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