hi all im a 29 year old female i was diagnosed with cancer when i was 16 as a result of chemo and radition i lost most of my bladders strength. i do kegel exercises daily. i am supposed to wear diapers because i usually can not hold it when i need to pee. i cant keep a boyfriend because of this. i hate the diapers because they are so thick. i have talked to my doc. several times. but he says theres not much i can do.he suggested i wear a catheter. i dont want that. when ever i wet my self in public guys come up and want to help but thats it. one guy wanted me to people him and have sex.i just want to be normal again is there anything i can do to stop me from peeing so much and so quickly. if not its back to diapers or bladder control pads for me