Straight Female / 32
Having To Take The Adult Route
I married Joe, a philanderer. I know, he was philandering with me when his wife blew a fuse and divorced him. On the day we got married, the day his divorce was final, his wife came crying that she hadn't meant it.
Now the shoe was on the other foot, I was married and he philandered with her. Oh I can't help it, he whined at me. I continue to love her, he whined. You can't ask me to live without her, he whined. What, may I ask, do you do with a whiner? Let him have his way? Put your foot down?
But, I remembered when she had to listen, I can't live without her. So after talking with her, agreeing on visitations, we agreed to coparent. For her, every other weekend, or when his whining got on my nerves. For me, custody and when he isn't in her care.
Now the shoe was on the other foot, I was married and he philandered with her. Oh I can't help it, he whined at me. I continue to love her, he whined. You can't ask me to live without her, he whined. What, may I ask, do you do with a whiner? Let him have his way? Put your foot down?
But, I remembered when she had to listen, I can't live without her. So after talking with her, agreeing on visitations, we agreed to coparent. For her, every other weekend, or when his whining got on my nerves. For me, custody and when he isn't in her care.
