Marriage Counseling Has Improved My Affair

My wife saw some texts and got suspicious. It became much harder for me to communicate with my side girl. Our meets dwindled from twice a week to once a month. I got depressed because I love her and I need the sex.

My wife and I don't love each other anymore. She doesn't give me blowjobs. She only needs sex a few times a year, and at that, she just lays there.

But in all other respects our marriage is perfect. We have two beautiful kids, a nice home, good careers, a supportive extended family, and we're admired and respected in our community and in our church.

Wife was crying a lot so I asked her what I could do. She said she'd found a marriage counselor and wanted us to go.

Now, I know all of that is BS. Talking to a third party can't fix any problem. Maybe it makes you feel better about a bad situation, but that's it.

I agreed to go, in hopes that my wife would stop crying and getting angry all the time. Surprisingly, it has been great! I go through all the motions, do the little homework assignments and say the things the counselor and my wife want me to say.

My wife was raving the other day about how I've been putting in "so much effort". Still no blowjobs from her. But because she's happier now and she thinks I am, too, she's backing down on the surveillance state.

I text my side girl after every session. We laugh about the BS. She and I love each other, so we have no need for homework exercises. I just text her that she's making me hard and I want to fuck her. She flashes her tits in a quick video. I send a jerk-off video, telling her I wish my load were going on her face or in her (very tight) pussy instead of into my hand. And that our babies are going to enjoy nursing on those huge tits. Now that is effective communication!

Thanks to counseling with my wife I am free to text my side girl every day without suspicion. We meet more often than before, maybe three or four times a week. We are closer than ever. I'm starting to explore what regular financial support and an apartment for her would look like. I am laying the foundation for starting a new family with her. (I'd be very involved but I would stay with my wife since the partnership side of our marriage is good.)

To marriage counselors everywhere, thanks for making one spouse feel happier, thus giving the other spouse more freedom to pursue happiness with another person. It's a win-win-win situation!