A Reality None Of Us Wants To Accept Or Believe

As a young college student I watched romantic movies, read romances and believed these romances were true. My personal experience never happened like that. Emotional abuse, physical deprivation, heart broken, I left college convinced that romance as depicted was a fantasy. I returned home and walked into a marriage with a suitable man, approved by my father who gave me away.

I became a mother before becoming a wife.

I have not witnessed the fairy tale, not once, not ever. I really wish that the depictions were not there, to mislead other young women. The truth is far different. My situation, married as I am need not be for others. I wish it would be different, but it isn't.

My advice, steal yourself for disappointment, love comes in a rush, a wave overcomes you. But just as the wave comes it leaves just as sudden. It's not for women to be together for a lifetime, other than sisters, women are meant for a man, and visa versa. It's the law. The law of nature.