Completely Blindsided

My wife and I have been married for 10 years. We have a suburban life - a good life. We have kids, money, a nice house, we travel. A good life.

A month ago as, I was pulling into the Dunkin, I saw her car on the edge of the parking lot. She was supposed to be at work. Feeling odd, I called her and she did not pick up. I tried again, no answer but I got the ‘can’t talk right now’ message. I sat and waited.

Thirty minutes later I see her and a black guy get out of a car parked a few spaces over from her car. Then I see another black guy get out of the same car and move to the front seat. She looks like a truck drove over her. She is wearing blue stretch pants, a t shirt and sandals - not work attire. I have no words about what I am seeing. None.

She gets into her car and leaves 10 minutes later.

That night at dinner, as we are talking about our day, she tells me work was super busy. She did not have time to call me back. Later that night, she asked me to rub her back as she must have done something to it at work today. Still, I am speechless. She goes to bed (naked) and crashes. Out like a light. I look for the panties she wore that day, but I cannot find any dirty ones. She met these men in an outfit that would be easy to take off and put back on!

Friday night arrives and she asks to go out with her friend Tammy. Sure, enjoy! I tell her. Later that night I texted Tammy asking where her husband Bradley is. He is sitting next to me on the couch. I made up a lie about him not responding to my text.

I text my wife and I do not get an answer. I call her and she does not pick up.

You get the where I am going here.

When she came home I was waiting for her. I asked her about all of it and she denied it. I told her I texted Tammy and she started to panic and get mad.

The confession, story and marriage ends with this: since high school she has been fucking black men - all men really - but many, many black men. When we got married, she never stopped. She had been hiding it from everyone since high school. She was hooking up with men three times per week for our entire marriage. What a shitty thing to do to someone.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 22, 2025 at 9:46 AM

That sucks for you, sorry bro. I guess we never really know do we? My wife is always told me that I was the only one she slept with, but she was engaged a couple of times and while she was a junior in high school. She dated a frat boy sophomore in college and went to frat parties. Now, why would she be so popular at the frat house if she had never done anything with anybody? I have more stories like that, but it just makes me wonder if the same thing was going on like you found out.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 22, 2025 at 10:20 AM

Why is it a "shitty" thing for women to pursue sexual fulfillment? Why on earth would you end your "good" marriage? She was taking Black cock the whole time and it didn't in any way interfere with your perception of or enjoyment of your marriage, until you found out. At that point, it became purely a question of your ego.

Why does it even matter that the guys were Black? Would your ego be less damaged if she'd been taking white dick, or Latino dick, or maybe Asian dick on side?

If she managed to fuck other guys for 10 years and you felt your marriage was "good" the whole time, why, oh, why, upset the apple cart?

This is the part of your confession that gives away your true motivation, and that exposes the hollowness of marriage: "We have a suburban life - a good life. We have kids, money, a nice house, we travel. A good life."

It's all about money and status. Nowhere do you mention love. Your wife was an instrument you used to get the goodies of suburban life, the nice house, the fat savings account, the vacations, the cute kids.

Why was it OK for you to treat her as an instrument, but not for her to treat you as one? By all accounts, you both enjoyed your "good" lifestyle.

Since you together achieved that lifestyle in spite of all the side dick she took, it would have made more sense to keep the lifestyle going. You could have chosen a "don't ask, don't tell" policy, or an open marriage. Though you were apparently happy with the sex she had leftover for you, you could have boosted your ego by getting side pussy. Or, for a totally different solution, you could have explored becoming a cuck, and eating those loads out of her pussy. That's an increasingly popular lifestyle.

But in sum, your marriage was based on accumulating status and wealth and status, not on love. You ended it to protect your fragile ego. Sorry, bro, I feel your pain, but be honest with yourself about your motivations!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 22, 2025 at 6:33 PM

Sorry to hear about the betrayal. The best thing you can do is move on from her and live a good life. Find a younger, loyal woman and let the world see it. Believe me, it'll be her life that suffers.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 23, 2025 at 12:52 AM

Yes, life has been rough. We have separated, she moved in with her mom (who is pissed at her) and the kids have completely dismissed her. But, this is the correct path.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 23, 2025 at 5:39 AM

She loves black cock and you love her. What’s the problem?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 23, 2025 at 8:26 AM

Why should the kids suffer because their mom likes a different color of cock than their dad's? Think about it. No matter whose cock she takes, she is, and will always be, their mother.

I hope you are not badmouthing her to your kids. That's petty, and it could have longterm psychological repercussions for your kids, requiring years of therapy to unwind.

When they eventually go to meet their Black stepfather, you have to encourage them to be kind and accepting.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 24, 2025 at 9:49 AM

that is actually very hot if you thin about it.
Bet she loves her little pussy stretched, and used.
How can you get upset with her about that?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 24, 2025 at 4:27 PM

Your wife sounds hot and sexy. You should be supporting and encouraging her BBC habit.

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