Why Cheating Is Different For Men And Women

I've been married over 30 years, so yes, I have cheated on my wife. I did so only after bringing up my sexual needs and learning that a woman's libido generally ends after the birth of her second child and if not, then at the onset of menopause.

But my cheating is different. I am insert my penis into a vagina. I'm not containing semen but injecting it. I can't get pregnant and grow someone else's baby in me.

I could never forgive my wife for cheating, though.

The thought of my penis entering a vagina that is or was full of another man's sperm repulses me. And heaven help us if he had gotten her pregnant and she was carrying a life he'd made, inside her. How could I forgive that? How could I ever look past the way she'd used her body, to incubate his kid rather than mine?

Men and women can both cheat, but women's cheating produces permanent changes (contamination of the vagina with semen; baby) whereas men's cheating is a temporary exercise of pleasure.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 12, 2025 at 4:32 AM

As much as we don't want to acknowledge it, this difference does explain why it's so devastating when a man's wife cheats. If it hasn't happened to you, you can't imagine the pain. You know immediately that the marriage is over.

Wives, on the other hand, can forgive a husband's cheating, even if there might be some tears and yelling at first.

I think it should be a punishable crime for a man to have sex with a married woman other than his wife. Men who need to cheat should focus on single girls.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 12, 2025 at 4:42 AM

Buddy if you cheat and contract hpv and you give it to your wife and she gets cervical cancer that’s pretty permanent, and you’ll have to deal with more than yelling and tears.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 12, 2025 at 5:26 AM

Cervical cancer is 100% preventable and has been for over a decade.

All women and men should get the HPV vaccine.

It is routinely given to young people and is available to adults, again, both women and men.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 12, 2025 at 12:40 PM

So you impregnate another woman, become a father to her child, and need to pay child support for 20 years or so - that shouldn't be a big deal to your wife? That's forgivable?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 12, 2025 at 1:23 PM

Yes, it's a much smaller deal than if my wife got pregnant and carried some other dude's baby inside her, in addition to the other consequences you mention, her becoming a parent and having to pay child support (assuming custody is shared).

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Picallo1

by Picallo1 on Mar 12, 2025 at 1:28 PM

You're a double standard, hypocrite piece of sh*t and I hope she cheats on you every chance she gets. Im all for an affair and if my GF was cool with open relationships I'd be all for it. I'd let her fuck dudes if I was able to pound pussies, but she's not into that so I fuck other pussies without her knowing but you're just a dick.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 12, 2025 at 5:21 PM

men can get other women pregnant, that's why men can love multiple women. Women can only love one man (at a time) and if that man changes then it's devastating for the man that loses the woman.

that's why you gotta breed who you can, when you can.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 17, 2025 at 4:27 PM

I'll fuck your wife and creampie her c unt. Then you can have sloppy seconds and use my cum as lube. You know you like it and want to try it.

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