Choosing Safety And Security On The Arm Of A Man
Ladies, if you are a lesbian, you will still be a lesbian tomorrow. Yes I know, being poor is awful, worse than awful, and you can learn to love him. You have the opportunity to have children, a home in the suburbs, the nice car, furniture, summer vacations. Marrying for money gets you out of the gutter. But a man that goes for a lesbian, especially a young dirt poor, broke, lesbian, is a rescuer. He will rescue you, but you will always, always be his project.
He will love you, a man's love, really does blow your mind when he holds you. But when he's ejaculating in you, he is owning you. Maybe straight women want that type of ownership, but your lesbian self will grow to resent it. Walking the walk, morning, noon and night, day in and day out, wearing what pleases him, cooking and cleaning (believe me a man needs his wife to cook and clean for him), not to mention babies, you will not have time for yourself, and lesbians need a lot of time for themselves.
Are you prepared to put him first? His babies first? First, means every minute of every day for the rest of your life. Straight women are wired to do that, lesbians are to put it bluntly, selfish.
Ask yourself before you take the plunge for safety and security, are you wife material? Or a selfish girl?
I'm past being able to leave him, I'm trapped in a golden cage, with three children. The man loves me, he rescued me, and put me on a pedestal. He doesn't remember I'm a lesbian. It's suffocating, controlling, I can't even use the bathroom without a kid asking what I'm doing. You think a puppy is lots of work, wait until you're married.


