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Straight Male / 26

How Do I Tell My Mistress?

I rented a hotel room for us Monday night. As always, the sex and the connection were amazing. I feel things for her that I simply cannot feel anymore with my wife. My wife is the same age as me, 26, whereas my mistress is 19, and so full of curiosity.

After these great encounters she always asks why I don't just leave my wife. I have to make up excuses. The reality is that my marriage is great. My wife is pretty, successful at work, and provides the kind of reliable, maintenance sex that keeps me going between meets with my mistress.

To get my mistress to stay, I had to say all kinds of bad things about my wife...she's ugly, has no sense of humor, dislikes being touched, and hasn't had sex with my in 2 years.

The problem is that our first child is 4 months old and our second child is on the way. It's impossible to deny that I still have regular sex with my wife. All of this is posted on social media. (I blocked my mistress, to protect her reputation, I said. Actually, I blocked her to prevent her from seeing shit like this.) If my wife uses a friend's computer, she will quickly catch me.

What's the best way for me to save my affair and my marriage?

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# 78014 - by Rhys / April 1, 2025
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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 1, 2025 at 1:27 PM

I meant, if my mistress uses a friend's computer (unblocked), she will quickly catch me.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 1, 2025 at 7:55 PM

you need to be honest with your mistress - she's getting ideas and you have to quickly shut that down.
create the illusion that you love HER but have to stay with your wife - like you're trapped because of the kids and the situation. make her feel bad for you but also fall deeper for you until she can't leave.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 1, 2025 at 10:29 PM

You don't have to do anything. Your affair is doomed in the long run anyway. That young woman has no room to grow in that relationship and sooner or later she is going be fed up with your constant stalling. Either way it's going to end in tears in the long run, and the longer it goes the more likely your wife will catch on. It's time you woke up to yourself, it's not going to have a long term, you need to put all your effort into your marriage. You have to get better before your wife gets better. get that right and you might find your wife will rise to the level you want and more. You need to learn how to spice up your love life with her, learn to take the lead in the bedroom, introduce scenarios, maybe introduce a bit of bondage or other games. Be her dom, fuck her hard, etc, etc. get that right and you will not keep up with your wife.

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Indigo

by Indigo on Apr 1, 2025 at 10:33 PM

Ahh, logged out again, like I said in the previous comment. You will not be able to sustain the deception, and it will cost you in the end.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 2, 2025 at 4:30 AM

You are going to get discovered by your wife, eventually. Your mistress is going to move on once she is convinced there is no future for her. All women want permanence and security in their future.

Your only long term solution which will give you both your mistress, your wife, and your children is to intregrate both into one family unit. It may not work, but it is worth a try. Otherwise, eventually your wife will discover your mistress and you will be be divorced from your wife, alienated from your children, and both extended families will hate you. You will likely lose your mistress also from implementing "damage control" once your wife discovers.


Assuming you have enough money to support two families, intregrate into one family. First, ask your mistress if she would be willing to "join" your family. It is going to be a real "sales job" on your part, but it will offer the long term security that your mistress will want. There will be a future for her.

Tell her that it is the best solution which will include her into your life forever. Just the offer will be very meaninful to her. She is already half way there because she is allowing you to be with another woman (your wife) while you are not with her. Include children with her as part of your offer.

If your mistress agrees to the plan, begin to formulate a way to introduce the idea to your wife. Advance the ideas of help with the family duties and companionship while you are busy working to provide for all. It has worked and been accepted in many societies.

On your present course, your are headed for the "Iceberg". It might work and get you what you really want with acceptance from both women.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 3, 2025 at 4:29 AM

Your first child is 4 months old and another one on the way?! Man your wife is very fertile or getting pound at work regularly that's why she's successful.

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