I Know Now Why Men Like Friends With Benefits Arrangements

I lived at home, with my mother and siblings. I had a job that paid more than ever, I got the job after college in an office with benefits. A girl at work needed a roommate and asked if I was interested. What I didn't take into consideration was her casual friend with benefits. He came around to get his 'piece' and offered nothing in return.

I complained to my male coworker, how could a guy be so insensitive? treat her like a fuck receptacle. He was sure she got something out of it, maybe she preferred dick to masturbating? I wasn't into playing with myself, and to be honest I'd never 'had' dick either. Living at home, made that difficult. My work friend offered to make me happy, now that I was living with a friend.

It was so casual, he would come over, give me dick, and leave afterwards. I talked to my roommate, was it worth it? She said yea, beats nothing. I agreed and let my friend come over. Getting naked wasn't so easy, allowing him on me was terrible, getting dick was overrated. Bottom line, not worth it.

I had to give him oral sex, manipulate him manually. Work my clit and finger myself to get wet enough before 'receiving' him. I did all the work, he got the pleasure. Not to mention, get him a beer and chips beforehand, go out with him. He took me to a strip joint for me to learn how to arouse him with his own private table dance. Soon enough I was fixing dinner, going to his apartment to straighten up, do his laundry.

Friends with benefits is totally a man thing, they get sex and all the benefits, and we get all the duties. Not even a ring to show for it. I'd quit, but he threw a tantrum.