Getting Desperate

by Anonymous on Apr 16, 2025 at 5:46 AM

If you don't want to cheat then the other option is to do what most guys here do. That would be to watch a lot of porn and jerk off. ( Buy a lot of lube, so your cock doesn't get raw).

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by Anonymous on Apr 16, 2025 at 5:52 AM

Normally I'd say to have an affair, for which you'll find lots of excellent advice in Reddit's "affairs" subreddit, but you're too young at 26 to spend the rest of your life in the shadows.

You have only viable options. First, you could tell your wife that your relationship is now open. Many people make the mistake of trying to "negotiate" such an arrangement. You can only do that before you marry.

Once you have entered a monogamous marriage, if one partner stops fulfilling their commitment to provide sex, then the expectation of monogamy is void. Of course, you reach that point after years of discussing your sexual needs and making a sincere effort to help your partner satisfy them. But the outcome is non-negotiable. You will be having sex with other people, and your spouse can accept that, or file for divorce.

This brings me to your second option: that you yourself file for divorce. You are 26 so you have your whole life ahead. Sow some oats! Don't get locked down again, with another wife and kids. Get a vasectomy and concentrate on fucking beautiful women as much as you want!

As a practical matter, divorce will be expensive, but when it happens early, you have time to rebuild financially.

Women often fight tooth-and-nail for custody. My suggestion is always to pretend it matters to you, then trade it for things you really want. It's a win-win situation, since you get the freedom you want and your wife unwittingly gives you more (maybe you want to keep the car, or the art collection, or even the vacation home in the countryside). The kids will be just fine! You send them cards at Christmas and on their birthdays, and visit them for a weekend once or twice a year. Whereas your wife nags them to finis their homework and clean their rooms, you get to be the "cool" parent who takes them out for ice cream and then to the IMAX.

Please let us know what you decide and how it turns out. Good luck!

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by Anonymous on Apr 16, 2025 at 6:29 AM

At the same age as you I found someone like myself another married guy he's in his 30s. We safely hook up and curiosity has treated us to many new experiences.

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by Anonymous on Apr 16, 2025 at 7:01 AM

I was in my early forties when my wifes libido fell off a cliff.
At first i masturbated a lot, not wanting to cheat. Then I met a guy who was in a similar situation.
We began having sex, both giving and receiving.
I didn't ever think I could have sex with a guy, but my only regret is not enjoying sex with guys earlier.
As for my wife and I , she now knows I have a male fuck buddy and couldn't be happier for me.

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by Anonymous on Apr 16, 2025 at 1:01 PM

Start sucking cock, you won’t regret it.

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by Anonymous on Apr 17, 2025 at 10:18 AM

Don't listen to other people. The way to go about it, is to show a little romance. Once you do that, she is putty in your hands. She will start to realize what she has and could lose. She will become your personal little whore. Sucking your cock and letting fuck her other 2 holes. Yes even anal sex, which she will enjoy. Best of luck and let us know how you made out.

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by Anonymous on Apr 18, 2025 at 11:14 AM

You’re going to be a cock sucker before you’re done. A lot of us men turn to cock. Easy sex, no commitment. You’re going to love it.qyfhmwh

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