I'm Looking For A Good Man

Female friends are upset because I said I wanted to have babies. It's supposed to be wrong to bring kids into this world. I want to get married. A good man, a man that wants to be a good father. My other friends say I need to stop talking to those women. Get another group of friends.

I know a man who lives on my block. He's a widower, he lost his wife the same week they got married. He has a good reputation. Would it be wring for me to ask him out?