A Decision I’m Dreading

I’m 18 and will be graduating from high school in a few weeks. I have been accepted to college with plans to start in August.
I recently went on spring break as I have for the last couple of years. I’ve been sexually active since my freshman year always with the exception of one time using condoms.
Both years while on break I slept with college guys I met. I have been exceptionally careful making sure they didn’t get close to me without a condom since it was casual one night stands. Early last week when my period was supposed to come I was late. I waited until yesterday being five days late with no signs I took a pregnancy test and I’m pregnant. I’m very pro-life so this is extremely traumatic. The decision I have to make is an abortion which goes against my beliefs or have the baby and delay college for a year. I have no idea who got me pregnant which complicates the decision meaning I’ll be a single mother. I’m sure my parents will be upset but know they will support me either way.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 21, 2025 at 4:04 PM

I've always enjoyed meeting girls at spring break parties, music festivals and other short events.

I don't use condoms (they take the pleasure away). I don't have to worry at these events, since the girls don't have my real name or any of my contact info.

Since one of my life goals is to be a prolific father, it seems like an efficient way to spread extra seed. I hope I have a few spring break babies running around already.

I'm 25 now so I won't be able to bed HS girls on spring break much longer. Hopefully there will be some slightly older but still attractive girls at music festivals.

To Kenzie - I support abortion rights (though hopefully my kids aren't the ones aborted), but don't compromise your beliefs over this incident! Single mothers can provide all the love a baby needs. Never let anyone tell you different! I've also met a few datable single moms, still hot, kids are old enough not to be crying and making noise, and the best part is that I know these women's abilities as mothers, and I know I can make more babies with them.

Once you've had your baby, Kenzie, consider a long-acting reversible form of birth control if you want to resume having fun. A lot of men who don't want to be dads prefer to date girls on IUDs. They'll accept a girl who is slightly uglier but has an IUD, over a prettier girl who could get pregnant.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 21, 2025 at 4:04 PM

Just know that abortion in the eyes of God is m****r. You will regret your decision the rest of your life, the child is not responsible for your actions and should not be m****red because you chose to pull you panties down and get fucked at a party.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 21, 2025 at 5:01 PM

I’ve banged lots of girls on spring break. Always without a condom. My name was either Joe or Steve from Illinois. Was it me.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 21, 2025 at 6:00 PM

Apparently you had multiple one night stands while on break since you have no idea who knocked you up. Hopefully you stuck to your ethnicity so there’s no chance of that happening. It’s not the baby’s fault you played and payed so please don’t have an abortion. There are options you’ll have after the birth then you can decide and continue your education.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 22, 2025 at 6:42 AM

I work with a pro life ministry outside abortion clinics. In 5 years our church saved over 1000 babies working 5-6 days a week. Some of our volunteers had abortions. most women regret it for life and wonder what if. Your baby is unique and will bless you later.

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athensgold124

by athensgold124 on May 5, 2025 at 6:00 PM

At your age, with help of family you and the baby can survive, but what about when the kid growing up wants to know where her father is and who he is , you ill have to make up a story , because no kid would like to know she or he is the product of an anonomous sperm dump , if you do get married one day it will take a special kind of guy to step up and be a dad .

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 16, 2025 at 10:02 PM

I appreciate your situation. It is a hard choice. Sex at your age is fun & games until it isn't.

If you are pro-life, have the baby.

I dated a girl your age when I was more than twice her age. She had a breeding fetish. We occasionally had unprotected sex. The thrill & risk of it was a huge turn on for both of us. Afterwards, she would take Plan B. We also timed our encounters so that it avoided the time when she was ovulating.

Anyways, I wish you the best.

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