Wanting To Take Back Going Into A Recruits Personal Life As A DI

It was 15 years ago; I was a kill hat that went into a particular recruits personal life to encroach on and asked if he was a virgin and he finally admitted when I kept prying. I made fun of him for it and did so in front of the platoon. Flash forward to when he EASed from service (in USMC) he found me on Facebook to confront me and still to this day gives me shit for that, throwing lots of context behind it like showing off his dick pic to verify that his girth would have been too much for most women forcing his standards, having too many expectations from too many coming in and out of his life as a whole, and worst of all is him knowing of an athlete falsely accused of r**e when leaving middle school causing him to "play the game of life from the ground up" to assure no incidents can happen.

I hate myself for being judgmental and as time went, ended up hating society for how it judges people while they have lots of years ahead to create distress. I have no doubt this made his time in Marines way harder than it should have.

He said he has serious goals of his dna outlasting the whole platoons and with a big goal of ending up in and or creating the biggest retirement orgy ever made and to be involved in it for 50 years as motivation for living long life. I hope this does happen because this guy really lost the upbringing lottery, comparable to when a group that was brought up in the top 1 percent of income class and then boasts relentlessly to a guy they are surrounding for being from a poor family and never being able to move up in class

The female equivalent of him would be one that got to 25 years old without sex, then discovered that she is unable to have kids from some genetic disorder inspite of having an exceptionally healthy life and goes on to go on a notch count rampage while being single by choice