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On The Verge Of Divorcing Wife Who Won't Do Anal

It's tighter than pussy, without the pregnancy risk. If you put enough lube and remain patient, it doesn't hurt. It can establish a dominant-submissive dynamic, but it can also foster moments of real vulnerability and intimacy.

Despite all these benefits, anal is the one sex act my wife won't do.

I've explained to her that I need regular access to anal intercourse to feel satisfied. She still refuses.

When I mention I'll be getting it from another woman or man, she flips.

When I mention the very real possibility of divorce, she cries.

All I'm asking you to do is turn around, bend over a bit, and let me fuck that ass. I can be done in 5 minutes, that's how tight you are.

Am I a bad person for preparing to divorce my wife over lack of anal sex?

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# 78750 - by Christopher / April 30, 2025
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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 30, 2025 at 10:46 PM

Yup, you're an asshole. Pun intended.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 1, 2025 at 12:10 AM

Every one is an individum! Your wife as well. It's her decission, it's her body

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 1, 2025 at 12:21 AM

I say take it. Go up to her and say either you let me fuck your ass and we enjoy it or I am going to fuck your ass and I will not be nice about it

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 1, 2025 at 2:46 AM

You must have gay tendencies, if she doesn’t want it leave her alone

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 1, 2025 at 3:47 AM

anon3 is right, but do use lube and make sure she has douched beforehand. Starting her on a high-fiber diet is a good idea.

Hopefully she ends up liking it, and liking the effect that fucking her ass has on you, her man. If not, you'll know you're incompatible, so you can file for divorce. Hopefully you live in a part of the world with "no-fault" divorce. Explaining and proving her unwillingness to provide anal sex would be challenging; reliving the scars of unfulfilled need could be traumatic for you. If you have children, perhaps you could argue against paying support on the grounds that you would have had anal sex instead of PIV with your wife, thereby avoiding pregnancy in the first place.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 1, 2025 at 4:35 AM

A few respondents seem to think it's OK for one spouse to veto the other spouse's sexual desires. I think he's entitled to an open marriage if his wife won't perform his favorite sex act. If she disagrees, he should divorce the bitch! Why deprive someone of something they like, even when you don't have to do it because someone else will?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 1, 2025 at 5:27 AM

Women either love it or hate it, I was never invited to do it until my second wife brought it up one evening. Two serious live in girlfriends and one ex wife and none of them wanted anal done to them, one of the girlfriends loved hers licked and rubbed but no penetration at all. It is more of a fetish for me, do not need to do it just fun every once in a while to poke her anus while I have an orgasm.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 1, 2025 at 6:15 AM

Bro, I can relate. For me anal is more than a want, and maybe a little less than an absolute need. It's just that I find myself taking risks to get it outside my marriage, maybe every few months. Gay guys are the easiest, to be honest.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 1, 2025 at 7:32 AM

Ask her if she would be willing to try butt plugs. They sell in an adult book store a set of 3 different sizes to try. Have her insert it in, and keep it in for a few days to stretch her out. Start with the small one, depends how big you are in girth. Once she starts to loosen up, her ass will feel a lot better taking your cock. Then it is off to pound town the way you want to give it to her.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 1, 2025 at 8:23 AM

Anal sex with a woman is one step away from gay sex. You sound gay to me.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 1, 2025 at 10:17 AM

Anal sex is better than PIV because the hole is so much tighter. Your wife doesn’t have to allow it, but if she doesn’t, let her know that you will find someone else who is willing. If she is not ok with that leave her. You can find someone willing.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 1, 2025 at 3:01 PM

Thank you to the last commentator. You get it!

Does your wife allow anal, or do you have to elsewhere when you need to fuck the tightest possible hole?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 1, 2025 at 7:43 PM

She doesn’t allow it with herself, but does allow me to have anal, but only with guys. That seems reasonable to both of us. Luckily her younger brother (who looks a lot like her- same body type, same size- 5’ 7” and 145lbs, same hair and even same hair style) is into guys exclusively. When we have sex (as we do quite often) it is just like I’m in my wife’s butthole. She likes to watch most times.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 3, 2025 at 7:32 PM

Yeah go ahead and take it like others have said. You’ll end up with a prostate infection and a high psa level. a urologist doing a prostate biopsy to rule out cancer. It’ll be worth it.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 5, 2025 at 5:18 AM

There’s always a way, you know how many times I’ve heard oh I don’t do that. That is until New Year’s Eve when she’s three sheets to the wind horny and wants to have sex. The booze gets the to relax and before they know it I’m balls deep gripping there hips hears there’s ass clap. The next morning there just sore but the hangover makes them not think about it. Then you can try again it booze them up again and film it. Most women like to see themselves get fucked trust me

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