Business Trip Temptations..Should I Give In?

I'm on my first business trip. After a long day of meetings and events I got drinks with a few of my coworkers at the bar. I'm happily married with my husband for 4 years and have only heard of the cheating that goes on during these work retreats. It's just raw passion and nothing else from what I understand.
Now I'm back in my room and feeling really horny all of a sudden, something about a hotel room really makes me wet. I'm pretty sure some of my coworkers this trip feel the same. There's one guy in particular who gets on my nerves at work, but really knows how to flirt when off the clock. I'm starting to understand why cheating may be a thing when people travel like this.

Looking for advice or tips from all the working wives out there. Is mindless sex common on your trips? Please share details.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 5, 2025 at 4:46 AM

About six years ago four of us went overseas on what was supposed to be a four week assignment that turned into about seven. The second day there, I will call her Shelly, asked me at lunch if my room had one bed or two in it, I told her it was a King and she sat there for a few seconds then said Yeah, mine is also, then just asked if I would room with her because she was scared of being alone in the hotel room. I told her sure because she had told me she was scared and who needs that in their life, we get back that evening and I packed up my stuff and went to her room. I was checking out the couch and it was not a pull out one, she told me that she wanted me in the bed anyways, she then said How about we just pretend we are married until we head back home. Best business trip I have ever been on.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 5, 2025 at 4:51 AM

I’m not a wife but a husband of 20 yrs I used to cheat got caught she forgave me but she gets a pass anytime hasn’t used it. I feel a woman should explore her sexuality if it’s making you wet you should do it. It’s clearly a desire you’ll kick yourself later if you don’t. Also if it’s something you like should explore these thought with hubby. Could lead to some very naughty sex opening up

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 5, 2025 at 7:24 AM

You come to a sex confession site asking for advice on whether or not to step out and try new dick? You expect any reply other than, "Give it a go and report back to us on how the sex was?" LOL

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 5, 2025 at 7:57 AM

Anon1, this time, the couch didn't pull out either! (In the saying, the man doesn't pull out.)

Confessor, be wary of sex with coworkers. Things can go wrong at work (colleagues noticing and gossiping, jealousy from a different colleague who is into you, a warning from your boss or the human resources department, etc.) and at home (your colleagues and your manager know how to get in touch with your husband).

If you are going to have an affair (which I think everyone should, because it is so much fun!), do it with a stranger. Give him a fake name and vague biographic details; expect the same from him. Meet in a neutral place, such as a motel. Find a private means of communication (ideally, an encrypted messaging service not tied to your phone bill, with disappearing messages, accessed from a Web browser that doesn't save history, user names, pws, cookies, or cached files, and that clears your browsing session automatically after 5 minutes of inactivity).

The less you know about each other's real lives, the less risk that one jilted spouse can contact the other, if either of you gets caught.

The "adultery" subreddit has great advice for getting started!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 5, 2025 at 8:35 AM

I have had several FWB arrangements with coworkers. I can tell you it usually ends up bad, someone getting fired, divorces, gossip, etc.. or someone getting hurt because they want a permanent relationship and breaking up homes.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 5, 2025 at 9:34 AM

That may be true, what the guy said before my message. But you have to look at it this way,. You are far away from home and who knows, your spouse might be having sex with someone else, while you are stuck being lonely. If you do hook up with someone, be prepared to do things, you wouldn't do with, your spouse. Like deepthroating and taking it up the ass

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 5, 2025 at 10:12 AM

My wife has an open pass on business trips as long as it doesn’t continue after the trip. She lets her partners know that right away. I have noticed that she now is at EVERY business trip and she loves going. She’s on one at least once every month, sometimes more. I love helping her pick out revealing clothes for the trips.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 5, 2025 at 12:36 PM

Never had intercourse, but have sucked a lot of cocks. For some reason, I don’t feel a blow job is cheating on my husband. I only do this on business trips, never at home.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 6, 2025 at 8:22 PM

To Anon above, giving blowjobs isn’t cheating.it’s really only cheating if you have an orgasm, really. My wife lets guys fuck her asshole at parties when they are getting too drunk and flirty. She feels guys are easy to tame by using her asshole or giving a blowjob, sex isn’t necessary. As a bonus when we get home, I get to fuck her creamy asshole.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 7, 2025 at 7:44 PM

If you're gonna have sex with co-workers on a business trip,
you should have an understanding with your spouse of signifcant other beforehand.

The best situation is to make it part of your own sex life.
You should be able to return home and tell your spouse everything.
Commenter #7 likes to help his wife pick out sexy outfits for her trips.
That sounds hot.

If you learned something new that you really like,
you can show your spouse when you return and add it into your sex life.

People criticize the 'swinger' life, the 'open' marriage concept,
or any number of other alternate lifestyles couples pursue.

But this is a perfect example of the fundamental premise behind them all :
To protect each other from the single biggest destroyer of relationships : cheating

All of that said, none of it matters when you read the post of Commenter #5
Sex with co-workers can lead to complications at work.
Do you want to risk that?

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