A Question As I Get Ready For My Birthday Present

My fiancé is an older man. We met through my church. We have kept our relationship platonic but he plans to give me my first sex as a birthday present. By waiting for me to be 18, he is showing me he is a beautiful and ethical man.

Naturally I have a lot of questions. He and I have talked as he prepares me for becoming a woman.

A big thing I am worried about is pregnancy. We are Catholic so there is no birth control and no abortion.

So I know that at the end of PIV sex, the man can pull out so his sperm doesn't go inside me and get me pregnant.

But what about oral sex? My fiancé has told me how much he likes that. The information I've found online suggests that men don't like to pull out during oral, that cumming in the girl's mouth is a big part of the pleasure.

If his sperm gets in my mouth, can't it swim down to my stomach and make a baby? Is saliva or stomach acid string enough to kill sperm? Is there some kind of tube connecting my stomach and my uterus, for sperm from oral sex to swim through? If there's no connection, I have nothing to worry about, right?

I hope you won't laugh at my questions. The sex ed class we had at school was all about abstinence until marriage. After marriage, we were told to do what our husbands say, but to keep in mind that sex other than for making babies can be sinful and addictive. In biology, we mainly learn about creationism. I find all of this very confusing. How can nuns and priests, who have never had sex, possibly prepare us for what to expect? Help!

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# 78836 - by Griselda / May 5, 2025

by Anonymous on May 5, 2025 at 10:21 AM

Leave it to some sanctimonious commentator to inject her interpretation of religion instead of answering the poor girl's questions! In some people's interpretation, sex with a committed fiancé(e) is actually allowed.

And honey, don't worry about getting pregnant from oral sex. There's no way for your fiancé's sperm to swim from your digestive tract to your reproductive tract. Offering to let him sperm in your mouth is a great way to encourage him to pull out, so he doesn't risk sperming in your pussy and getting you pregnant before your wedding.

Whatever he tells you and whatever you read online, it's your choice whether you want him to sperm in your mouth and, if you permit that, whether you want to spit the sperm out or swallow it. It can be lot, I warn you! At first I didn't like the taste, but now I am used to it. To be really honest, it's something that can keep a man around, since most of my girlfriends seem to have a hangup about swallowing sperm.

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by Anonymous on May 5, 2025 at 11:44 AM

YOU CANNOT GET PREGNANT FROM ORAL SEX

end of story. Also the pull out method is very very unreliable, many ladies have gotten pregnant from PIV sex even when the guy pulls out before coming, this is because a small amount can still leak thru before you pull out.

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by Anonymous on May 5, 2025 at 4:06 PM

According to Planned Parenthood, the pullout ("withdrawal") method is 96% effective (4 of 100 couples will conceive in a year) when practiced correctly and consistently.

If he forgets to pull out or doesn't pull out early enough, that drops to 78% (22 of 100 couples end up pregnant in a year).

It's false information to say that the pullout method is ineffective, or that it's not a legitimate means of contraception.

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by Anonymous on May 6, 2025 at 6:09 AM

I think her point was also to confess that she has an older, secret lover. We should ask her questions about that.

How old is he?

How did they meet? Specifically, what happened at church?

Who made the first move?

How "platonic" have they managed to stay?

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by Anonymous on May 5, 2025 at 7:20 AM

Not sure this is. Joke or mocking Catholics. But if you claim to be a Christian, the Bible clearly teaches no sex till marriage so stop being a hypocrite.

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by Anonymous on May 5, 2025 at 12:05 PM

I’ll tell us this, you can get pregnant swallowing a priest’s cum. I got 3 abortions as an alter boy.

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by Anonymous on May 5, 2025 at 6:37 PM

You posted here rather than using say google or ChatGPT? I call total bs

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by Anonymous on May 7, 2025 at 1:52 PM

I strongly suggest you read a book on human sexuality, preferably before your wedding..... actually, several books.... maybe even LOTS of books.

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