Another Way

It was 30 years ago and I began to discover a different side of my personal and sexual nature. I was 25 and that summer I reflected on my sexlife so far. I was a young man who had slept with several women and had a couple girlfriends. My horny desires and libido needed something more. One afternoon I discovered a local park where men cruised each other for sex. Soon I was receiving oral and being masturbated by other men and feeling a new sense of satisfaction. I began enjoying sucking other men's cocks a lot as well. I had encounters with all sorts of men... muscular,skinny,average,overweight ,older ,black,white,other races. I enjoyed all sorts of different men. With some men there was deep passionate kissing then sex,others just sex or a quick grope and blow. I felt the urges hit me several times a week. I lost interest in women srxually and preferred men. After the early 2000's I stopped cruising in parks and went to gay bathhouse and had sex with men there. More comfortable getting a room or going to the showers,sauna and getting it on. I discovered that while I had friendships with men and women ,romantically I prefer a variety of different men for sex and it was enough to hook up with men this way rather than a conventional relationship. Anonymously men can get into a lot of kissing and touching along with the sex as well as some intimate exciting chats. You do not feel tied down. I can also feel aroused and intimate very quickly with a stranger and express myself more freely as they don't know much about me and I can spontaneously express myself to them without any judgment. I do not engage in intercourse or rimming as oral cockplay and masturbation are somewhat safer. Have not any stds in the 30 years of this activity. I know this lifestyle is jot for everyone but it seems to suit me the best sexually rather than monogamy.