I Had To Stop Age-playing With My Husband

When I met my future husband, we were both kinky and we felt comfortable exploring.

Age play is his thing. I became good at choosing outfits, modulating my voice, and eventually, role-playing the reactions that a younger girl would have to an older, experienced, dominant man.

We had two daughters early in our marriage. Unlike other couples, we kept our sexual energy alive. Even if my husband was tired from a long day at work, I could tempt him with some good age play.

Later, I began to reflect on the scenarios he was asking me to role-play. He insisted the whole thing was fantasy, that he had no desire to do any of it in real life. I knew that was true, based on the porn in his web browser history. It was totally conventional, nobody dressed up to look younger. But I was conflicted.

"Our daughters are that age now."

"It has nothing to do with anyone real, it's just fantasy!"

"Still, I feel uncomfortable."

"Are you accusing me of wanting to fuck our daughters?"

"Of course not!"

"It sure feels like it."

"I'm sorry."

"You used to be fun."

There was a big drop-off in our sex life. Age play was so powerful that I could turn him on when he was stressed, make him fuck me and cum two or three times in the same night, and even get him to fuck me when we were out in public, like in restrooms or fitting rooms.

He resents me now for stopping his favorite kink. I want to save our sex life and our marriage, but I don't know what I should do. Help!