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Women Only
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Straight Female / 32
Sold Out To The Patriarchy
I was twenty six between partners. I worked in accounting for a global company. I went to training and that man was there. I had to sit with him, follow him around, talk to him. I called a friend at work and she suggested that maybe he liked me. After the training he walked me to my car and stood over me, made sure I buckled in properly. He bent down and told me I was worth pursuing.
He asked me out and I got out of it, tried not to be offending. It got to the point of having to tell him, I had enough growing up with an overbearing father, I was sticking to women friends. He dismissed my complaint, and insisted on seeing me. I relented, and wasn't able to control the outcome. I woke up scared I could be pregnant.
He didn't like my degree, Finance, and 'sent' me back to school to an executive MBA program. All day Saturdays and lots and lots of homework. Halfway through, oh he had established privileges, he wanted to talk to my mother. He let her know I was going to marry him, he had brought a ring for me. I was married four months later. I got my MBA, a Mrs. and Mom degrees.
Living with a man is no different than living with my father. He gives me the opportunity to give him my opinion, then does what he had in mind to start with. I have to sleep with him, and 'suffer' through it. An old lady told me he is going to maintain sexual dominance so lay back and enjoy it.
It's been five years, I have two kids, work part time, live on a wooded lot in an old neighborhood. 'Pleasing' me he added another bathroom and a laundry room.
Marital sex is constant and unending. If I had known he needs this much attention maybe I'd still be single, in general accounting.
He asked me out and I got out of it, tried not to be offending. It got to the point of having to tell him, I had enough growing up with an overbearing father, I was sticking to women friends. He dismissed my complaint, and insisted on seeing me. I relented, and wasn't able to control the outcome. I woke up scared I could be pregnant.
He didn't like my degree, Finance, and 'sent' me back to school to an executive MBA program. All day Saturdays and lots and lots of homework. Halfway through, oh he had established privileges, he wanted to talk to my mother. He let her know I was going to marry him, he had brought a ring for me. I was married four months later. I got my MBA, a Mrs. and Mom degrees.
Living with a man is no different than living with my father. He gives me the opportunity to give him my opinion, then does what he had in mind to start with. I have to sleep with him, and 'suffer' through it. An old lady told me he is going to maintain sexual dominance so lay back and enjoy it.
It's been five years, I have two kids, work part time, live on a wooded lot in an old neighborhood. 'Pleasing' me he added another bathroom and a laundry room.
Marital sex is constant and unending. If I had known he needs this much attention maybe I'd still be single, in general accounting.
