Sexual Feelings Towards A Co-worker

One of my co-worker(29F).she is married and has a kid. She is driving me crazy, whenever i see her, i imagine doing sexy acts in office with her. Her lips, ass,neck and legs making my mind think about the stuff i want to do with her. I imagine making out with her in the elevator, lifting her top and pressing ass through her tight legging and slowly kissing her gentle lips and neck.I just want to have a hardcore make out session with her,and squeeze her ass, eat her pussy and make her moan. Fuck even her necklace turns me on, it looks so hot on her and my eyes keep looks at her curves and how gently she moves her ass around while walking.Often, i get dreams about fucking her and she is riding on top of me. Sometimes I wish it was real and also sometimes i feel like a creep and weirdo.But, this what is running in my head for a while.

We often go for lunch together along with other co-workers. She is nice , I also don't act weird to make her uncomfortable and sort of anything. I respect her, but i like her too, she is beautiful, sweet and nice. I am attracted to her, i can't deny that.But, I like being around and talking to her.

Should i go ahead take it further by being little flirty with her and see where it goes or should I leave it.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 25, 2025 at 3:02 AM

"sometimes i feel like a creep and weirdo."

No, it is normal for a straight man to be attracted to a beautiful woman. Your hard penis does not understand constraints such as "co-worker", tantalizingly older woman, or "married and has a kid". He just wants to be inside her.


"Should i go ahead take it further by being little flirty with her and see where it goes or should I leave it."

The thing people forget about sexual harassment is that the conduct has to be unwelcome. You can ask one time, and if she does not reciprocate, you must be prepared to stop, and to forever put these thoughts out of your mind.

More likely than not she is a bored and exhausted wife and mother, whose husband hasn't taken time to eat her pussy in months. Showing interest in her and then following through by pleasuring her will turn her into putty in your hands.


Have you considered your ultimate goal? A little one-time fun? An ongoing but purely sexual affair? Dating her, with the eventual goal that you will meet her kid, she and her kid will leave her husband, and you will marry her and be the step-dad?

If you feel you've already played the field, and you are comfortable that she is slightly older than you, I say, go all the way! In a year she could be your wife.

Do keep in mind that once you start down the path of seducing her, you may not have a choice about the outcome. Your already strong attraction could intensify. Wherever you think you fall on the continuum of options...one-time fuck, sexual affair, or love and eventual marriage...be prepared that falling in love is often unavoidable.

She will waver about leaving her husband, so make her feel safe, and do everything you can to build rapport with her kid. To encourage her to get engaged to you, you might have to resort to getting her pregnant or to planting a clue so that her husband will get suspicious. Hasty husbands often drive their wives straight into the affair partner's arms, which is what you want.

Best of luck, bro, and keep us updated!

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Seagull57

by Seagull57 on May 25, 2025 at 3:39 AM

Overall, the above advice is solid. However, I disagree! I think you should leave her alone! She is a co-worker, a friend, at best. Nothing more. Have you had lunch alone with her? Has she made any flirtatious actions towards you? Locked eyes in a meeting? Spent time asking you things that you know that she already has the answers to? If any of my questions ring true, do not try to seduce her. She is most likely a happily married Mom with a loving husband at home. If you pursue her, without her initiation, you will become the horny office jerk! And, harassment in the work place is not often tolerated. Find a single woman and move on! This one is taken.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 25, 2025 at 7:00 AM

Never hurts to flirt a bit especially when you’re alone at lunch or out away from work. A simple this was fun we should go out again sometime

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 25, 2025 at 10:38 AM

i’ve been down this road several times. Work relationships only lead to losing your job, breaking up families, pissing people off, and hurting people. Leave her alone and get a girlfriend and keep your job. Just because she’s nice to you doesn’t mean she wants to sleep with you.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 25, 2025 at 7:07 PM

He can get another job but he'll have a harder time getting another woman who turns him on so much, and who is nominally available (as many bored, married women are).

YOLO

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 26, 2025 at 6:12 AM

Work place sex is awesome.

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