So I dated this guy and I thought I loved him and I believed him when he said he loved me. So after about 7 or 8 months he took my virginity. I really didn't want to do though but he kept pushing it all the time. Then it was like he wanted to do it all the time, and I mean it was okay sometimes but he just wanted it everyday. After, about a few months after that he started controlling me. He wouldn't allow me to wear jeans,makeup,earrings,tight shirts,or even straighten my hair. It got really annoying then I was even told to not talk to any boys even if they were my friends. I lost soo many of my friends and I didn't want to. He wouldn't let me go to the mall unless he was there cause he said I was being a slut or I was cheating on him. He even said I couldn't go to my own grandma's house cause I would cheat on him up there, which i never did.

My parents couldn't stand him.. actually noone in my family could. We would go to the movies or out to eat and he wouldn't pay I had to. He never paid for anything. For his bday I spent $115.00 on a southpole outfit & colonge for him. For my birthday he told me he had been working with his brother in law and that he bought me a necklace and ring from Kings jewlers. I believed him till the night he brought it down to me he put the neckles around my neck and the ring on my finger. Later when he left I took them off and looked at them.. the ring was bent and used, and the neckles said avon on it. It hurt me soo bad to know that he said he stole it out of his sister's room. Considering everything I did for him and as much as I paid for everything !! After we were together for a year he became abusive. Then, when we were together he acted soo different, and treated me so bad.
I found out that he cheated on me with a girl I couldn't stand.. and he had sex with her more than once. The last time being on our 1 year 2 month anniversery. I ended it right there I couldn't take it anymore.
I just recently found out that he had sex with 5 girls while dating me, one a girl he said was he cousin. Pretty sick if you ask me. I also heard that he said he hopes he see's me so that he can put me in my F**king face because I'm a lying ***ch just because I told some of my guy friend and they were gonna fight him.. but he always ran away.

I'm just soo glad I'm not with him anymore. I'm back to being me and wearing what I want =] and doing what I want without being controlled by him.