I'm young. I believe in trying everything, at least once. And now I'm trying the "mistress" position. I'm not desperate, or a slut, or whore. I just wanted to try it out. See if there is any thing special about married men. Well, now with all of the lying my lover has done to me, thinking I'm stupid, I want to break it off. I want his wife to know what an asshole he is. How she could do so much better than him. I won't say anything to her, I'm not that vindictive...but I want to....is that wrong?