I'm In Too Deep, I Can't Leave Him

I had a friend, not romantic, who was killed in a motorcycle accident. It hit me. I was a zombie and I let a man hug me, a man I've known for ten years. He kissed me, first gently, then he was a wolf all over me. He needed to show me how much he wanted me right then and I gave into him.

I haven't been able to move on from him. He's married with a family. I would not call it an affair. It's sexual, on both parts. I'm scared his wife will find out, I don't want to hurt her. I don't want him to leave me.

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UniverseofErotica

by UniverseofErotica on Jun 4, 2025 at 8:38 PM

maam, no matter how u look at this, it IS an affair. As for not hurting the wife...well either she will be ok with it and join in, which i have seen happen or she will be hurt. Lying sucks but its like an infection, the longer u wait the worse it will be...

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Seagull57

by Seagull57 on Jun 5, 2025 at 6:41 AM

The only real question that you need to ask yourself is, will I be happy in this arrangement next year? In three years? Five years?
Are you hoping to have a family of your own? Having a loving husband, with two kids and a dog running around the backyard?
The way that you began this affair was very calculated. He took advantage of you when he saw that you were vulnerable. He has no plan to ever change things. He likes having two pussies at his disposal. The life you want is immaterial to him. He just wants you to stay quiet and open your legs. If this is not what you want your life to be, change it! Gather all of your strength and courage and tell him that you are done, that your relationship is at an end. He will push back, wanting to keep the good thing he has had. But, be strong and resolute! Create the future that you want. It's closer than you think! Best of luck.
Seagull

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 5, 2025 at 8:48 AM

Seduce the wife as well, it’s your only option.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 5, 2025 at 9:14 AM

Are you having anal sex with this man, that took advance of you?

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athensgold124

by athensgold124 on Jun 6, 2025 at 8:34 AM

He has a hunger for you there is not much you can do. you can of course up root and move away, but if you have a sexual hunger for him you will pine for him and move right back , His wife no doubt will find out eventually, whether she is willing to share is the question, In today's world wives may be more tolerant I guess you will just have to see how it plays out

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 11, 2025 at 4:43 AM

Right things have a way of working themselves out don’t worry about it and enjoy

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