It really depends on how your sexual fantasies evolve.
I know for me I watched a lot of straight porn in my 20's mostly focused on the women. Somewhere around age 30 I noticed the cocks more and more finding them sexier and sexier. I began wondering what a cock would feel and taste like. Visually I started looking at the cocks more than the pussies and tits . Started switching over to bi and gay porn to see more cock action. Had my first gay experience with a gay neighbor and enjoyed it. Now at 40 I mainly have sex with him both oral and anal and occasionally with a female friend. To be honest I prefer cock now.
It’s normal for a straight guy to admire, envy or even want to suck other guys cocks. You’re only gay if you are a man who is exclusively into men. If you are still attracted to women and pussy, regardless of how much you like cock, you’re obviously not gay, but you might be bisexual. And if you’re attracted to shemales who look like woman but have cocks, you’re still straight, but with a bi twist.
You'll achieve greater clarity if you put on a pair of your wife's panties and then think about whether you have homosexual desires. Let us know what you discover.
Tip: Be sure to wash the panties afterward.
You don't really "turn" bisexual. Most people are inherently bisexual and we're just raised to think we're mostly all straight. And your bisexual might not be the same as the next guy's bisexual. Whatever your thing is, go with it. You're still you no matter what.
HypnoSissy420, yours is one of the best comments I've read on AdultConfessions. So true!
Sex with guys is easier, frankly. Guys are all about orgasm and aren’t particular about how they get there. A penis fits in the mouth or anus perfectly. There is no pre-sex romance necessary and they are fine sharing a beer afterwards then going home after that, no strings attached. It takes guys until about age 35 to figure this out. There’s a reason most unmarried men over age 35 are homosexual, and men who divorce end up in this lifestyle pretty quickly. Endless opportunities for sex.
Thank you to the commenter after me, that's quite nice...
And to the next commenter, that is so true. It should be far more common for guys to have sexual friendships with other guys. Hell, I'm even the kind of guy who can make myself just as hot and alluring as a girl.
As we age, and sex begins to dry up at home, men naturally turn towards other men for sexual satisfaction! It takes a little time to reprogram ourselves to allow ourselves to look at m2m sex as desirable and enjoyable! American men are raised to believe that all m2m contact is bad. It should not be discussed and never be considered. The question that takes the most time to answer is why?
Once you think it through, it makes perfect sense. As mentioned above, men are far less focused on relationships. You find a like-minded buddy, stop by to watch the game, grab a beer and suck each other's cocks! If you wish to move on to anal play, that's up to you! The best part is; you don't have to hide the cheating from your wife! No sneaking around, secret texts to hide, no charges on the credit card that need explaining. Just enjoying the sexual satisfaction! For me, the toughest part is finding a buddy!
I’m married with kids and grandkids and Ben sucking cock for 40 years. I like it, and I’m not going to quit. Don’t judges yourself,just go with your feelings and enjoy.
Seagull57, you are spot on!
I went from dabbling in m2m 15 years back to my 100% outlet. Wife has zero desire to do anything sexual.
Some guys aren't ready to accept this option and are losing out. When you finally figure it out you kick yourself for all the opportunities you've wasted.
