Am I Late For These All Fantasies

It pains me that I discovered my inner woman so late. But it also torments me that I cannot share this with my husband. When and how can I tell him that I want to have sex with him, woman to woman? Is it too much to ask him to first dress me nicely, put on make-up, and then fuck his female friend behind my back? I've always dreamed of having sex with a crossdresser like me. I did it for money, but I also want some love. Is it too much?