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I Think I’m Addicted To Masturbating.

I, 20 year old female, am a virgin.. and I think I’m addicted to using a vibrator. I’m scared of penetration.. like.. so much so that I don’t even enjoy using tampons.. yet I love clit stimulation. It’s embarrassing even thinking about how much my mind truly drifts into thoughts about when I can touch myself next. I have bought multiple sex toys to please myself with and I love them. Every single day if I’m not using my toys then I’m using my fingers. Either way, I am truly content with being single and I don’t really feel like I’m missing out on anything. Though, the situation lies in the fact that there were many moments where I could’ve lost my virginity.. yet I chickened out last minute… every single time. I’m not sure if penetration truly scares me or what the situation is but I have not lost my virginity despite my relentless “sex drive”. Am I broken or is it normal to want to avoid penetration sex while absolutely loving external pleasure? And do u guys think my need to touch myself will decrease if I get the real thing?

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# 80065 - by Whareyou505 / June 26, 2025
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Seagull57

by Seagull57 on Jun 26, 2025 at 3:52 AM

I read somewhere that masterbation is not a problem unless you begin using it as a replacement or to avoid sex with a partner. That is what seems to be happening here.
I'm sure that you've thought about it, but why the avoidance of penetration? Is it a matter of not trusting someone else? Are you afraid that if you don't like the act, or if it's painful, your partner will not stop? When you use your fingers, is it simply clitoral stimulation or do you slide your fingers inside? If not, maybe you should try? Use your vibe to get yourself wet and then slip a finger in. You are in control of everything, so you can decide the speed and pressure that you apply. Use your juices to slide your finger in and out . You may find that you enjoy it! If you still cannot bring yourself to do it, you may need to seek the guidance of a professional. Best of luck!

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athensgold124

by athensgold124 on Jun 26, 2025 at 5:41 AM

I dont know much about the addiction thing but I think your discovering what makes you feel good and learning about how you body responds when you are sexually aroused which i think is great , there is no pressure from being with a guy and the risks which are obvious , to me you are a very mature young woman .be happy and when that special guy comes along everything will fall into place be well,

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 26, 2025 at 5:57 AM

Have you tried girls? Penetration is no must.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 26, 2025 at 8:20 AM

I thought I was addicted to masturbating also. Turns out I just love cumming.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 27, 2025 at 8:19 AM

Is it because you are afraid of getting pregnant? A males cock feels a lot better because of the skin, better than having a hard plastic piece of toy in you. How about anal sex? You can't get pregnant with anal. And besides it will feel really good when a man penetrates you, by you having a hard piece of skin in your ass. Let us know how you made out.

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athensgold124

by athensgold124 on Jul 2, 2025 at 6:23 AM

Self pleasure can be the best sex because you get to know your own body and what makes you feel good the thing to note though when you enter into a relationship you have to get to know another body, his or her erotic zones and needs, in the case of you pleasing a man you have to take into consideration of a unplanned pregnancy and how to avoid that until or if you want kids with this man .

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