Son Causing Us Problems

I am 52 year divorced woman in New Hampshire
I dated a 36 year old man that lived in my neighborhood
Two months ago he moved in with me as my common law spouse.
The problem is my 7 year old son does not want him living here. If my common law spouse chastises my son if my son does something wrong my son will say " go home you are not my dad".
Or " why are you living here"?
Or "why you sleeping with mom, get in your own bed.

If he he hears the bed creaking when we make love he will come and knock on the door and scream "let me in' what's that noise.
He disturbs us when we are making passionate love. It's irritating.

And lately he is been having accidents at night .He is 7 years old. My spouse (Rod) told him we are going to put diaper on him at night.
My son threw a tantrum kicking and screaming. He would not stop. I pulled down his pants and spanked his bum .

The kid does not want Rod living here.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 27, 2025 at 9:20 AM

To bad your the adult sounds like some else is going on get him therapy

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 27, 2025 at 9:20 AM

You need to have some special mom son time he feels replaced. Take showers with him tuck him in and give him special attention kisses and hand or blow jobs he will love you for it

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 27, 2025 at 9:30 AM

Sounds like your son is the only growing up in the house. Time for you and what’s his name to grow a pair of balls and sit down and talk to him.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 27, 2025 at 10:58 AM

This is pretty common with a step parent. I rebelled against my step dad growing up and my step mom. Even though they were good enough parents I still resented them and would tell them to fuck off as a teen, punch holes in the walls and s tupid shit that kids do. I deal with it now with my teen daughter and my girlfriend (my daughters mom died 8 years ago to impact things more).

Anyway, the best thing you can do is keep setting firm limits and boundaries with your son. Definitely do some one on one time with him without your partner. Remind him how much you love him and that no one can take his dad's place, but there must be mutual respect in the house.

Good luck, I know it isn't easy. But you will get thru this.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 28, 2025 at 6:48 AM

If he hears the bed creaking when you make love. That is not love. You are getting your brains fucked out by a younger man. Is he fucking all your holes? He must have a big dick, if you sleeping with a much younger man.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 1, 2025 at 7:13 PM

He’s a kid and you’re selfish plus cruel. You’re doing a good job messing him up psychologically in the long term.

I have my own kinks and desire for sex but your child should be first in your priorities regardless and you should amend your schedule. He is not an adult who is cognisant.

Keep doing what you are doing and you will regret it in years to come.

Trust me, I hate my own mother now and have not spoken in 8 years.

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