I Cheated

I am a mom with a 4-year old daughter and have been married for six years. I have a professional job which took me to a conference a few months ago. Some friends at the conference introduced me to an attractive married man. We hit it off and I did something I had never done before. I wound up in his room and we made out on the bed. He took off my top and bra and played with me, but we did not have sex. The next day I was back in his room and we both were naked. When I said I could not have sex with him, we decided to each masturbate until we came. I had a giant orgasm and watched as he pulled himself and came on my breasts. I had never masturbated before with a man watching me.

What we did broke through my boundaries. We moved together and he rubbed his penis across my clit until I held it and pushed it into me. I groaned as he went fully into me. I had multiple orgasms before he came in me. I took his penis in my mouth and sucked until he was hard again and then I fucked him one more time.

The conference ended the next afternoon and I flew home with terribly mixed feelings. I had very much liked the sex. It was passionate, it was exciting, it was uninhibited. But I also felt guilt for what I had done. I did not love my husband less, but sex with another man overwhelmed me. I wanted him in me. A lot. I have no intention of looking for more sex outside of my marriage. I am treating it as just a one off. I have not told my husband. But, I wonder if any other women have been n my situation. I wonder if they told their husbands? If so, I wonder how their husbands responded?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 1, 2025 at 9:28 AM

The same thing happened for me. I finally told my husband. After of time of him being upset with me, he asked me to tell him exactly what I had done, so I hesitantly told him. He grabbed me, pulled off my shorts and fucked me hard. He came very quickly. Although my husband was aroused by another guy fucking me, I wouldn't count on that reaction from all husbands. You may want to take some time to have some nuanced conversations with him before deciding.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 1, 2025 at 9:38 AM

I wouldn't tell him. It will cause a lot of drama. My wife cheated on me after i had cheated on her. I was going to go fuck that guy up. We got over it all, but eventually ended up divorcing because of the infidelity.

Yes, it is exciting and intoxicating to have that fling, but you should really be asking yourself why you did it, do you really want to be in a monogamous relationship, what does your marriage really mean to you, how would you feel if your husband fucked another woman, and how will you respond given the chance to fuck another guy you are attracted to?

Infidelity is never worth it. Either stay true to your vows or be single or in a relationship that you and you partner are ok with having sex with others.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 1, 2025 at 9:43 AM

Hopefully the man you slept with at the conference was of a different race and you’re now pregnant. That would give you a lifetime souvenir of your first extra marital affair.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 1, 2025 at 10:16 AM

If your husband is a beta he’ll be fine with it. Just act like you made a mistake , maybe blame it on alcohol. If your husband “married up” and you are above his league, same thing. If your husband is self confident, open minded, and not the jealous type, same thing but no need to blame alcohol or feign regret. If your husband is an alpha type, small minded, or tends towards jealousy, DO NOT TELL HIM. Limit your affairs to business trips.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 1, 2025 at 1:51 PM

Perhaps take a moment and ponder this. There is someone for everyone out there. No mater how tall, skinny, ugly, attractive, or overweight. With enough time, anyone will find someone to have sex with. As such, every person will eventually get an opportunity to cheat. Being faithful takes will power and respect. A productive adult must live with daily stresses that come about from work, kids, bills, illness, and etc. The most respectful thing a person in a relationship can due is not add more stress to their partners life than they already have, by making them worried that their spouse is being unfaithful when away from home. Your spouse could cheat on you just as easy. How would you feel if they approached you and told you this news? Then next time your at work dealing with life's stresses you can have the added stress of worrying as to if they are cheating again. It has nothing to do about excitement, being an alpha, or beta..... It has everything to do with having enough respect in each other to provide the other with one guaranteed comfort in this crazy life, that they don't have to worry about infidelity. They should feel that their spouse is putting in the same amount of effort as they are, by being faithful, despite having the opportunity to be unfaithful.
I don't cheat on my wife. Its not because I cant!
It's because she respects me enough by making sure I don't have to worry about her cheating on me. With all the things I need to worry about in life in providing for and razing my family, I don't have to worry about that one. What is that piece of mid worth?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 1, 2025 at 2:05 PM

Some of the stuff on here, I swear… Don’t tell your husband. You messed up, you had a fling, now it’s back to normal life. Of course it’s exciting because it’s sex with someone new without the day-to-day hassle in kids and what’s for dinner and all the problems. if you get the urge again, spice up your sex life with your husband, or buy a huge dildo, or something like that. Unless you want to be single, just chalk it up to a one off. If you’re really tempted, just consider how you would feel if your husband had sex with another woman.Good luck.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 1, 2025 at 8:54 PM

life is short. enjoy the flings. old people regret not having sex more often - don't do that. enjoy your life while you can.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 1, 2025 at 10:08 PM

I agree with the person immediately above.

As for telling your husband, I'd suggest buying a leather collar, some rope, and a whip, and having those laid out when you tell him. Explain that he is now a cuck and this is the new form of your marriage.

He'll be surprised at first but incredibly turned on.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 2, 2025 at 3:54 AM

To Anon above, I think that’s too abrupt and would have a high failure rate. You need to slowly move him there. Start with a finger up his butt while he is having sex. Progress from there to a small dildo. Eventually suggest pegging. When you get to pegging explain that he’s not manly enough and that you intend to have sex with him ”real men”. At this point, he’ll accept anything in your relationship.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 2, 2025 at 6:11 AM

I met my current husband in a similar way. Except we lived in the same town and what was only supposed to be a one time thing turned into an all the time event and even when we should not have. I got caught and like you I loved my husband and family but needed something else and my god did my bf at the time now my husband give it to me. Honestly the first time he fucked me i knew he was going to own me. That’s what it was he owned me and as long as he made me feel how he made me feel I was his. Lots of hurt feelings my kids where older and now they are older and have forgiven me. He steel absolutely hammers me into a coma

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 2, 2025 at 9:07 AM

Thanks all. I am not going to tell him. And, I am not going to do it again.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 2, 2025 at 10:52 AM

You like the excitement of having someone other than your husband fucking you. Things that you will not do with your husband. Have someone like fuck your throat, fuck your ass or cum on your face.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 5, 2025 at 4:36 AM

I’m a professional woman, married for fifteen years now.

I had my first encounter at a work conference and felt guilty as hell but the following year ended up in bed with a different guy..

Several of my female colleagues have confessed they do it regularly and just see it as part of the conference experience. In fact a lot of the guys attending know that certain married women are up for no strings sex when out of town.

It definitely adds some frisson to the office when over previous years four or five of us know we have each hooked up with each other.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 10, 2025 at 8:00 AM

My husband has told me when I am at a business conference that I should feel free to fuck other men if I want. He just wants me to tell him about it when I return home. I am attractive and in my late 20s. For the past two years, I fuck at every conference I attend.

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