Straight Female / 28
All Babies Are Welcome, Whether By Wife Or Girlfriend
I work for a doctor, I'm a nurse, and he got me pregnant. I don't deny there is a lot of hero worship on my part. I am well along with my pregnancy, his wife told me 'you're married'. This was because I went to a party with some college friends.
Her position is based on the fact that bearing children for a man, is the very definition of being married to him. She doesn't believe that a conventional marriage is a limiting factor, I'm his 'wife' or 'concubine'. Just as married. Ergo, behave as such, I should not 'party' outside of the marital boundary.
He is indifferent, wife, concubine, mistress, girlfriend, are not defining. The point is I'm pregnant, and soon to present him a son. All babies are his, and as far as he is concerned, all the babies are brothers and sisters, the mothers marital status is indifferent. How we define ourselves between us, is up to us. She wants wife or concubine, I was okay with girlfriend.
Her position is based on the fact that bearing children for a man, is the very definition of being married to him. She doesn't believe that a conventional marriage is a limiting factor, I'm his 'wife' or 'concubine'. Just as married. Ergo, behave as such, I should not 'party' outside of the marital boundary.
He is indifferent, wife, concubine, mistress, girlfriend, are not defining. The point is I'm pregnant, and soon to present him a son. All babies are his, and as far as he is concerned, all the babies are brothers and sisters, the mothers marital status is indifferent. How we define ourselves between us, is up to us. She wants wife or concubine, I was okay with girlfriend.
