I am cute when I make up my face and wear nice clothes. And I can be a bit sex in lingerie. But what else can a bigger lady do to come off sexy. I want to be comfortable though.

I am 5'7 230 pounds, suede brown tone skin, young featured face, bigger in the upper body than lower. Thick thighs. I would put my self at a 7 on a scale of 1-10.

Earrings and long hair really set my face off. What else can I do while dressed. I am dating now and a virgin and I want to give my bf something to look forward to in the feature (NEAR)

Come off classy and with style.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Dec 20, 2008 at 6:25 PM

An 7? More like a 1 with a six-pack. The only hope for you is to put out to anyone and everyone - that means taking it up the butt and swallowing too.

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by Anonymous on Dec 20, 2008 at 8:40 PM

There's always diet and excercise, but you don't seem interested in changing.
I'd suggest you go to a photographer and have him photograph you in a bandana, smiling excessively and rolling your eyes.
Then show the finished photos to your boyfriend and tell him you got the job as the model for the new Aunt Jemima syrup jug.
He ought to appreciate you then.
Nothin' like a woman who can make her own money.!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Dec 21, 2008 at 2:13 AM

First, don't listen to the asshole replies here.
Second, be confidant in yourself. Wear clothes that fit and complement you. Same with make up - just enough.
If have seen some ugly Playboy type women, and sexy large women - it's all in the presentation.

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by Anonymous on Dec 21, 2008 at 6:46 AM

yeah sex appeal is as much about having the right attitude as anything. you seem happy in yourself, if make sure he has love and respect for you then you can't go far wrong.

What your boyfriend finds sexy will probably be unique to him, the god old stocking and suspenders routine might be conventionally thought of as sexy, but my boyfriends just as up for it when I'm in my pyjamas.

Just keep everything clean and tidy and your confidence will shine.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Dec 21, 2008 at 6:58 AM

black woman look great in marrons, dark reds and purples, maybe you could get a nice combo set in stain and lace, then have a day to get dolled up: moisturise, exfoliate, wax/shave, pluck eyebrows, paint nails, the works!

Sounds like you love your hair so getting some really good conditioner to make it extra soft and touchable might be a nice idea, small things like that can make a difference :)

good luck I hope it's really special for both of you!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Dec 21, 2008 at 7:32 PM

Black women look best in handcuffs and striped jump suits. Don't worry, you'll get yours soon.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Dec 21, 2008 at 8:53 PM

C'mon, that racist shit is not called for.

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by Anonymous on Dec 21, 2008 at 10:03 PM

I made some typos *bit sexy* and *future*

Thank you all for the replies. Not surprised by the rude ones. I can't be bothered to care though.

Great suggestions! and yes I do love my hair, it's naturally curly and long. I'll be sure to get it good and soft.

My boyfriend draws very well and I've used this to get him to draw me in a "sexy scene" and asked him to use his imagination. He was surprised by my request but happy to oblige. I sure learned a lot. And we are on the same page also, that's nice to know.

The color suggestions and everything are very helpful. Thanks again.

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by Anonymous on Mar 16, 2009 at 7:36 PM

WHA YES MASSA! YESA MASSA INDEED! I'S A BEIN EATIN' ME SOME COHNBREAD! IF EVAH OH EVAH I DID SEE ME A BETTAH LOOKIN' CHILLUN AS YOU, IDA EAT EM!

thats all i could read and then i stopped.

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