Straight Female / 35
It Happened At The 4th Of July Barbecue
I live in a boring, all-American suburb. These folks organize a big barbecue for the 4th, and anyone can come.
My husband and I had been married 7 years by that time, and I'd been having an affair with a hot neighbor for about 5 years. He and his wife had just separated a few months before the 4th of July barbecue.
We were in love and he was begging me to leave my husband. It's not so easy when you are a stay-at-home mom to 3 kids. Still, my neighbor loved kids (he and his former wife had none) and my kids loved it when he visited. In a way that made our affair easier, because my kids thought it was normal for "Uncle Dan" to come over. They'd even mention it to my husband, which was perfect because it made Dan's presence totally normal.
Anyway, Dan was tired of waiting for me. He was tentatively starting to date another woman in the neighborhood. She was younger and prettier than me. I loved him and it hurt. We talked and cried a lot about the situation. He said, "You know, Sarah, the answer is real simple. Just leave your husband and I won't have to date other women. I would marry you so fast, become a dad to your kids, and give you some kids of our own."
That conversation was literally the night before the 4th.
So hubby and I arrive at the park where the barbecue is being held. Dan is also there, with his new girlfriend. I realize it's now or never.
I don't pounce or anything, but over the course of the afternoon, when Dan comes over to chat, I put my arm around him. It just feels right. More right than it ever felt with my husband.
I see a puzzled look on my husband's face. And on Dan's girlfriend's face. I don't know what comes over me but I kiss him and just say "Yes". He himself is dumbfounded. "Yes what?" "Yes I want to be with you for the rest of my life."
Let's just that it was unwise for
my husband to throw a punch at Dan. Dan was a few years younger and worked in construction, so he was built. It was hot seeing two men fight over me.
Dan later told me he'd gone easy on my husband. He was compassionate. "Don't hit a guy when he's down." Dan knew that what I'd said had hurt my husband more than any punches ever could.
Even so it was enough of a brawl that the 4th of July barbecue was disrupted. Friends dragged my husband home. I told Dan's now ex-girlfriend to get lost. I went home with Dan.
In fact I never left Dan's home. We are now raising my two kids from hubby, and four kids of our own. We are incredibly happy. He fucks me hard and deep once or twice a day.
My ex-husband sold our house and moved away. The homeowners' association felt that times were changing and it would be too risky to have a 4th of July event without private security, for which there was no budget.
So Dan, my new husband, takes our family to the neighboring city to see the fireworks.
If my story can teach you anything, it is that you should not wait to pursue happiness. I could have left my husband before we'd had kids. I could have enjoyed 5 more years fully with Dan instead of sneaking around and surviving on little scraps of time and quick fucks. If you love someone, tell them today and decide to be with them only!
Happy 4th of July from America!
My husband and I had been married 7 years by that time, and I'd been having an affair with a hot neighbor for about 5 years. He and his wife had just separated a few months before the 4th of July barbecue.
We were in love and he was begging me to leave my husband. It's not so easy when you are a stay-at-home mom to 3 kids. Still, my neighbor loved kids (he and his former wife had none) and my kids loved it when he visited. In a way that made our affair easier, because my kids thought it was normal for "Uncle Dan" to come over. They'd even mention it to my husband, which was perfect because it made Dan's presence totally normal.
Anyway, Dan was tired of waiting for me. He was tentatively starting to date another woman in the neighborhood. She was younger and prettier than me. I loved him and it hurt. We talked and cried a lot about the situation. He said, "You know, Sarah, the answer is real simple. Just leave your husband and I won't have to date other women. I would marry you so fast, become a dad to your kids, and give you some kids of our own."
That conversation was literally the night before the 4th.
So hubby and I arrive at the park where the barbecue is being held. Dan is also there, with his new girlfriend. I realize it's now or never.
I don't pounce or anything, but over the course of the afternoon, when Dan comes over to chat, I put my arm around him. It just feels right. More right than it ever felt with my husband.
I see a puzzled look on my husband's face. And on Dan's girlfriend's face. I don't know what comes over me but I kiss him and just say "Yes". He himself is dumbfounded. "Yes what?" "Yes I want to be with you for the rest of my life."
Let's just that it was unwise for
my husband to throw a punch at Dan. Dan was a few years younger and worked in construction, so he was built. It was hot seeing two men fight over me.
Dan later told me he'd gone easy on my husband. He was compassionate. "Don't hit a guy when he's down." Dan knew that what I'd said had hurt my husband more than any punches ever could.
Even so it was enough of a brawl that the 4th of July barbecue was disrupted. Friends dragged my husband home. I told Dan's now ex-girlfriend to get lost. I went home with Dan.
In fact I never left Dan's home. We are now raising my two kids from hubby, and four kids of our own. We are incredibly happy. He fucks me hard and deep once or twice a day.
My ex-husband sold our house and moved away. The homeowners' association felt that times were changing and it would be too risky to have a 4th of July event without private security, for which there was no budget.
So Dan, my new husband, takes our family to the neighboring city to see the fireworks.
If my story can teach you anything, it is that you should not wait to pursue happiness. I could have left my husband before we'd had kids. I could have enjoyed 5 more years fully with Dan instead of sneaking around and surviving on little scraps of time and quick fucks. If you love someone, tell them today and decide to be with them only!
Happy 4th of July from America!
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