A Married Friend

I realized in retirement that my true emotional and sexual needs as a older gay man could be met in a certain way. My life had included marriage with a woman then divorce, relationships with other women until my gay acceptance,gay affairs and relationships with men, and anonymous gay encounters, I placed an ad on a gay online app. Specifically I was looking for an older man single or married who was lacking sex and loving in his life I could provide him with behind closed doors. We would be free to express to each other our deepest wants and desires and satisfy them together. No judgment or inhibitions loving the other unconditionally without living together or a conventional dating experience. Basically concentrated sessions of lovemaking.

John answered my ad. He was also in his 60's and had an ex wife who he was still friends with due to having children together. She accepted he was gay and acknowledged that was why their marriage did not work. He was looking to be loved for who he is but like me wanted to be with a man privately to express oneself without the restrictions of any kind of conventional dating relationship. To meet a couple times a week for loving sex.

We talked on the phone and decided to meet. John came to my condo the first time several months ago. He is just under 6ft tall with grey hair and a moustache,average build. He is a talker and quite animated on manner. Quick to express emotion and his opinion. I am a bit taller than him,slim,receding white hair,cleanshaven and quieter.

The attraction was there right away. We soon kissed passionately and went to my bedroom. Both our cut cocks were hard as we undressed. We had agreed to express whatever we feel as soon as we feel it with each other. No holding back. He became loving right away and I felt the same and expressed it. He sucked my cock lovingly and kept sucking until he had my load. I did the same to him and emptied his cock with my mouth. We talked for hours after our first sexual encounter. The talk became more and more loving
We slept together and he left in the morning.

He returned a few days later. We told each other how much we missed our being together. This time John fucked me in my bed. I pulled him close as he squirted inside of me.Him on top his cock wildly thrusting into my hole.

Each time we meet it is concentrated lovemaking and lovetalk. Both of us have experienced love but never before without any judgment or expectations. Now we just freely express any of our deepest longings and needs to each other then the other loves them fully and we end up in sexual communion whether oral,manual or penetrative. This form of connection I wish I had many years ago. I only wished for it without receiving it until now. It works because we don't try to make it something that has everyday familiarity. We only get together for sex and loving. No dinners out or movies or dates of any kind.

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athensgold124

by athensgold124 on Jul 14, 2025 at 6:52 AM

you found a companion for life good for you; I am 66 and am just now coming to the realization that I want a man , i have several male friends but the one i fantasize about is married his wife in an educated woman and we share interests from politics to religion, her husband is basicly a liberal also my other circle of friends are really conservative but we just do not bring up politcs . getting back to the man i am interested in his wife probably be surprised if i spoke with her alone about my infatuation with her husband but i have a feeling she would leave it up to him , either way they are dear friends and if nothing came to fruition we would remain so they are both a few years older and like all my friends I treasure them dearly.

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by Anonymous on Jul 14, 2025 at 8:43 AM

I’m married and my lover is widowed. We have a great sex life and enjoy each others company. He’s definitely my top, which I don’t mind at all. I get to screw my wife and he has no one but me. It works well for us.

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