Need Just A Bit More

My husband of 12 years and I have great sex fairly often and we satisfy each other when we do. But simply put, I need to orgasm or cum more frequently than just when we have sex. I differentiate between the two because for me an orgasm is full-body, all consuming, shaking, loud and verbal, and with recurring waves of pleasure. It leaves me exhausted and fully satisfied. But cumming , for me, is a more brief, low key sort of mini climax that leaves me melting, wet and wanting more…wanting an orgasm.

So I got a mini vibrator to sort of…ah…supplement my orgasmic frequency. I talked to my husband about it and he’s fine with whatever gives me what I need. Mostly I use the vibrator privately when he’s not around. But sometimes he helps out. The vibrator makes me cum and want to orgasm, which I get addressed by my husband (he’s very orally skilled). So my little side hustles satisfies me on one level, but also builds my need for more, making sex with my husband even more exciting. I’m cumming and orgasming more than ever (sometimes 7-8 times a week) and loving every second. Wow I’m loving it so much.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 14, 2025 at 8:07 AM

Your husband might say he's OK with your vibrator but inside, he's feeling inadequate.

A recent study found that when a wife buys a sex toy such as a vibrator for personal use (that is, not with her husband in the room), the couple's chance of divorcing within a year rises from the normal background rate of 4% to a shocking 75%.

You need to reassure your husband that his dick (and his tongue and fingers) still does it for you. Men get intensely jealous of vibrators.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 14, 2025 at 9:36 AM

Your husband sounds like a very understanding person, who will do anything to meet your needs. May I suggest another man with a larger cock than your husband has. There’s nothing more intimate than having a man guide another man’s cock into his wife and watching her pleasure build to levels He is unable to make her achieve

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 14, 2025 at 10:30 AM

OP here - to the commenters above, you know nothing about the relationship my husband and I have. Unlike the first Karen above, he is not insecure like you about size or performance. He knows full well he pleases me. Nobody who hears me orgasm with him would have any doubt about that. As to some “study”, why don’t you cite it? I expect crickets from you though. And as far as the second commenter, unlike you, my husband is not a cuck.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 15, 2025 at 9:20 AM

Maybe you need to get him to have anal sex with you, to keep you satisfied and have a strong orgasm.

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