Ok my husband and I have a great marriage, 2 beautiful kids and a pretty good life overall. There is only one major problem. I have been having intimate dreams about one of my neighbors. When I see this neighbor, I say hello and we some times talk about kids or the weather. But we are always outside and his wife is generally there. I do not feel physically attracted to him (at all) when we are talking. but ow I feel like I cant even look at him because of these dreams. But when I go to bed at night, I have at least one sexual dream about this man each week and they are in explicit detail. I feel horrible!! I would never want to be with another womans Husband and I feel guilty for having these dreams. I know I cant help it, but I just had to tell someone before it ate me alive. Can anyone tell me how I might be able to deal with this issue because it obvioulsy isn't going to go away.