Looking for some real advice here, please!

A group of girls threw a bachelorette party for me, and we went around to a bunch of dance clubs. Towards the end of the night, we couldn't find my sister-in-law. A friend and I were walking by a crowd of guys when we found my sister-in-law on a bar stool in the crowd with a guy standing between her legs. They were obviously having sex! Her skirt was pushed up and he was grinding on her big-time.

I yelled her name and she slurred back "What?" My friend and I had to physically pull the guy off of my sister-in-law. Luckily we did, he had no condom on but didn't cum in her yet. Hopefully he didn't have any diseases.

So now do I tell my brother? She was sort of out of it, but not so far gone that she doesn't remember. She is begging me not to tell since they didn't "go all the way" in her words. I say she didn't use a condom so it's still unprotected sex.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 6, 2009 at 4:55 PM

blackmail her and make her let you give it to her with a strap on not to tell - and oh yeah, let me watch.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 6, 2009 at 5:03 PM

Real advice? Are you sure you loaded the right web page?

Well since you asked, I think he needs to know. Your sister-in-law was in contact with this fellow enough to get any number of diseases and probably enough to get pregnant. And I'll bet anything that she's done this before.

I suppose if she got tested and came up completely clean then she could keep it to herself and not do anything like it again, but frankly I think your brother is better off without her anyway. If it were me, I'd tell him.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 10, 2009 at 11:03 AM

Let she who is without sin cast the first stone.

Are you the screw police? You were at your bachelorette party. I assume you are getting married (God help him!). Why don't you keep your nose out of your sister-in-law's business and concentrate on keeping yourself out of trouble.

Ask yourself why you attended a bachelorette party to begin with. Do you need to get drunk, 'blow off steam' in order to get through the wedding? Look to your own self and quit dreaming up situations with everyone else to interfere with!

Use this lesson to realize that you need to keep your own man happy, pig!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 10, 2009 at 12:12 PM

Absolutely. Let your brother stay stuck with the lying, cheating witch. He's probably a jerk and deserves to be married to a slut.

Don't tell him. Mind your own business and just stand by while she lies to him and cheats on him.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 10, 2009 at 11:55 PM

Thats your brother! If he had info that your husband cheated on you, wouldn't YOU want to know? I think it is VERY MUCH YOUR BUSINESS!! It happend right in front of your face and that dirty whore made it your business when she acted that way at YOUR party. If she drank too much..thats HER DAMN problem..you can have fun without drinking like a fish and screwing up your marriage. Take it from someone who was in your same shoes..tell your brother! The only thing you have to lose is that slutty sister in law.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 15, 2009 at 2:55 PM

i think he needs to know, but for the sake of their relationship it would be best if it came from her, not you. try to convince her to tell him, however if she is not at all sorry for what happened then it's down to you. She has betrayed him and really what way is that to begin a marraige? when you decide to marry someone you are promising to be faithull to them and she has betrayed his trust.

In this situation a forced admition from her would be of little value as she has to take full responsibility for her actions; she may have been drunk, but not too drunk to say no. whether or not he came is really quite irrelevant because had you not intervened they probably had every intention to go "all the way" (not that it makes much difference as most people would consider any sexual contact to be cheating).

maybe you should talk it through with her letting her know that she has undeniably betrayed your brothers trust and that if she hopes to have any meaningful relationship with him she has to be honest.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 16, 2009 at 8:28 AM

I agree with post 594I.
You should insist she tell your brother.
However, if she won't do so, then you should.
If you don't, then, when he finds out about it - maybe years from now, he'll come to you and ask you why you didn't tell him at the time.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 17, 2009 at 8:36 PM

you should kill yourself, and kill your sister in law as well before he kills you both.

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