I need some adive on what I should do. So I've got a boyfriend that is constintly acccusing me of talking to other boys, and cheating on him, no joke he does it every day. The truth is that I DONT do any of that stuff.. I wouldn't because I really love him.

So he's always ditching me to hang out with his cousin, so he says but sometimes I suspect differnt. For like the past month he's had a girl's hoodie in his room..( you know the school kind with the girl's name on the back) so I asked him about it. He told me that his cousin was wearing it, then took it off and left it there since.

Another thing I went onto his myspace account and found out that he's been writting to the girl who's hoodie was in his room. I read the message and it started with him say to her whats up with you, your too good to hangout with me anymore.By the way happry b-day. Her reply was well if you girlfriend wasn't up your ass all the time we could hangout. His reply to that was.. well everytime she isn't with me your always busy. And her last reply to that was I'm sorry I couldn't come up my mom said it was too late.I'm sorry. But call me on my cellphone later. My charger is acting weird but I'm gonna swith phones.

That really hurt me to know all this was going on behind my back, you know. I'm so confused. I was crying all night. Then when I seen him today I cried and asked him about it. He said he forgot to erase that message and that he only did it because he was mad at me. He said he hasn't talked tp her on the phone or hung out with her but I don't know what to believe. He says he cares and loves me, but why would he do that ??

Another thing, the other day when I was at his house.. his cousin was there. And he recieved a text message on his (the cousin's phone) and it was asking if my boyfriend was woth him. My boyfriend asked who it was and he looked and whispered to him then about a second later his cousin said out loud that it was one of his guy friend's but I'm not dumb.

He appologized and said he won't do it again but what should I do ??

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 8, 2009 at 4:38 AM

Dump him. He's not worth your time.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 8, 2009 at 10:11 PM

he accuses you of cheating because hes cheating, thats what we call a projectionist projects his behaviors on to you. break up with him soon

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 14, 2009 at 9:43 AM

Well what happened with the situation. Was Saturday at 1:44am I got a text message from him from his cousin's phone and it said
I still care about you I swair it's just I dnt want a girlfriend right this min. Sorry.

Then he sent me a message that said
I will be your friend as long as you want me to.
I dont mean to hurt you.

I don't know what to do. ON his myspace he took me off his number 1 top friend and moved me down to second to last. OH, and guess who he was as number 1 now.. The same girl that I found he was talking to and it's also the girl who's hoodie I found ni his room.

I guess he's been hanging out with her. He says that that hung out as friends only and that he wasn't alone she had a friend with her and his cousin was there. I don't know whiter I should believe him or not.

Then, today he came over to burn a cd. And so one thing lead to another and we ended up having sex. Everyone was telling me if he tried to have sex with me,not to do it. I mean even his mother told me that. I feel so guilty now. After we were done I asked him if what we did ment anything, and he told me no..we did it just for fun. And that bothers me. I mean I'm already hurt inside and now this. I just don't want to be just a booty call you know. He said he needs time to think if he wants a girlfriend or not. I told him I just wanted to know what you were thinking and if you even want to be with me or not. He said maybe Friday he might know.

But I dont know what to do. Please give me some advice.. I need it.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 14, 2009 at 10:06 AM

Let me spell this out to you:

D U M P H I M

Get it? Give him walking papers. He's scum.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 19, 2009 at 11:26 AM

Well since then I did hangout with a guy that is best friends with him. We didn't do anything we just watched tv then went to the mall and walked around. My ex said he was gonna get back with me till he found out that I hung out with his friend. But I didn't mean anything by it. I just don't know what to do. I love him so much, and I feel like I want him back. But I'm so confused !!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 19, 2009 at 1:02 PM

Walk away. Don't look back.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 20, 2009 at 12:10 PM

I want to.. It just feels like it's so hard to do. I mean I know I deserve so much better. I think I'm just impatient. I just wish I could actually meet a guy that knows how to treat me and that actually wants more than sex and money from me.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 20, 2009 at 12:22 PM

You can meet someone. Men will just appear when you least expect it. Just remind yourself that you deserve better than scum and drop this guy. Don't call him, don't listen to him, don't hang out with his friends. Go do something else.

You will meet someone.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 22, 2009 at 6:29 PM

I think I made a mistake by giving him another chance. He said he wouldn't start dating me again till I could get $60.00 for him so that it woud help him get an amp for his car. So like money is deffinetly tight for my family right now. But I did get the 60. Just I don't know. So he did say that we were back together this afternoon. Then not even 2 hours after we started dating again we went to the gas station and he got mad because one of my guy friends that I used to talk to last year in school saw me there and said "hey how you been.. you know stuff like that. I tried to not hold a convosation with him. Because I knew I'd be hearing about it in the car on the way home. Which I did I had to appologize to him and I said Ilove you and blah blah blah.. he didn't want to hear it. He said I fuc*ed up again already by talking to a guy. ( You know I'm thinking BIG F'ing DEAL !! My goodness I didn't do nothing wrong,right ? )

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 24, 2009 at 8:36 PM

To Original Poster,

My god your a fucking dumbshit, here you are, spellin out every reason to dump his ass, and you still question him? What is wrong with you goddamn mind? Let me put it this way as one Anonymous user to the next. This man is what society calls a "Parasite." He's the kind of guy that will use you like a fucking resource until your either bone dry, or he become bored with you. Right now, all he's doing is holding your hopes and dreams in front of you like fucking carrot on a string to get what he wants. You want to know why he really got mad at you for talking to some other guy? Its not because he loves you, he doesn't your just a resource to him. And by talk to some other dude, he see that you as a resource are moving away from him.

He's fucking worthless, and if you can't realise that soon, maybe you are too.

Sincerly,
Captian Albatross

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 26, 2009 at 12:50 PM

Either you're deaf or stupid. Or both. Everyone here has told you to dump him. Yet you keep coming back with one lame sob story after another. Now it's cost you $60 that you'll never see again. Walk away. Erase his number from your cell phone.

Do you understand? He's scum. And if you give him even the tiniest bit of another chance, you're a complete idiot - maybe you two do deserve each other.

Show us all that you're smarter than that and tell us you told him to F off.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 23, 2009 at 6:46 PM

hi darl
getting rid of him may hurt for a while
but if some one loves you they love for you not for money and they are sure they like you,
not unsure about you so look for someone who likes you for you
love glen

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 31, 2009 at 10:35 PM

this is the dumbest story i've ever heard.. tell that man to fuck off or maybe you too is a priceless worth of thing. prove to him that you dont need him. hes just using you.

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