Straight Male / 32
My Girlfriend Of Over A Decade Is Married.
Me & my gf got together when we were around 20. We love each other (even after read this we do) and we had to go apart due to college & work. We did (and still do) chatting cam'd sexted everything...she has had some emotional outbursts (deep depression) even before we met but i understood that and I always calmed her down...and randomly she had 5 yrs ago and went silent for a week..
I kept texting & calling and she told me she just had a break down. I accept it and we go back to normal for years after....but then she is showing me some awards she was getting for her education & job...she doesn't realize her last name is on it & it isnt her last name...so I did some digging & when she went silent she got married to a guy in college. She doesn't know I am aware of it.
We do have plans to marry & move in together next year (we both finished with stuff) but I am waiting for her to confess what she did or if she will act like never happened.
I love her but I am hurt she has lied to me for yrs. Love makes people do dumb things & I do love her still even knowing its dumb to do so...
I kept texting & calling and she told me she just had a break down. I accept it and we go back to normal for years after....but then she is showing me some awards she was getting for her education & job...she doesn't realize her last name is on it & it isnt her last name...so I did some digging & when she went silent she got married to a guy in college. She doesn't know I am aware of it.
We do have plans to marry & move in together next year (we both finished with stuff) but I am waiting for her to confess what she did or if she will act like never happened.
I love her but I am hurt she has lied to me for yrs. Love makes people do dumb things & I do love her still even knowing its dumb to do so...


