This is a question for all of the ladies out there and I hope to get honest and sincere responses. I am a 29 year old male, by the way. With that tid-bit out of the way, I just wanted to gain some female insight into a question of mine.

A few days ago I was scheduled for an appointment at my local unemployment office. I may be presumptious, but going to an unemployment office is somewhat embarrassing for most people. When I first entered the place I immediately noticed this woman who looked to be around my age standing in line.

She had long, straight, midnight black colored hair and a beautiful olive complexion. I want to describe her as "plain" looking, but I personally did not see her that way. She was not the stereo-typical, front cover of the magazine bombshell woman who is plastered in make-up with fake lips, huge breasts and a small waist, etc. I am not into the "fake" look. This woman was simplified and stunning in her simplicity and I could not stop sneaking glances at her. I think that she noticed me looking at her because our eyes met a few times.

My question is this: Does it make a female feel uncomfortable for a man to notice her and admire her beauty? She must have noticed me looking at her. I did not say anything to her at all, though I really wanted to.

First of all, we were in an unemployment office for crying out loud. How weird would it be to approach someone of interest in an unemployment office? If I saw her at a night club or a bar then it would seem more appropriate and I would not feel as odd about the circumstances.

Second, I did not want to seem like some sort of a desperate creep looking for sex and nothing more. We were both there to seek employment and possibly some unemployment benefits...who knows? I really wanted to talk to her and see what she was all about, but the circumstances were not what I consider to be proper.

As I stated above, I would appreciate honest answers. I just want to get a feel for what women would do in this situation.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 20, 2009 at 6:36 PM

what did she catch you looking at, her face, boobs or ass.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 20, 2009 at 9:50 PM

To be honest, I have had guys look at me.
I would not feel comfortable if they looked old and not that great, you get what I mean. If the guy that was looking at me looked good, and young, I wouldn't really mind. I know thats pretty stupid, but thats how the female mind works. It also would be uncomfortable if the girl had a boyfriend, you never know.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 22, 2009 at 8:08 PM

these days I like it as long as it isn't a leering sort of look. If it is a flirty sort of thing or just a casual checking out then I like it.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 24, 2009 at 5:00 PM

Thanks for the responses.

As I stated, I am 29 years old. I am not obese. My body size is best described as average. Hygeine is a major concern of mine. I shower and shave regularly and have no facial hair and I brush my teeth daily.

Overall, she was very pleasing to the eyes. I did not stare at her continuously, but when I did look at her I would stare at her face. That is how our eyes met a few times. This was from a far away distance. I think I might have made her uncomfortable though I did not mean to do so.

As I said in my initial confession, if the two of us were in different circumstances then I would have approached her. I wouldn't have done so out of lust, but rather attraction. I wanted to know who she was as a person.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 24, 2009 at 9:55 PM

Unless you die sooner; you too will be old so, just remember your stupid post.

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