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Straight Female / 26
I Have Daddy Issues, But My Daddy Has Another Girl He Takes Care Of
The problem isn't so much that I have Daddy issues with this man, it is this other girl was also having Daddy issues with him. We are alike, we worked together and we both now each other real well. He doesn't differentiate between us, he's told us he has enough love for both of us and we have to get along like sisters.
My situation was abandonment as a child and growing up without a man in my life. Her issue was far more serious, her mother was beaten up by her father, he took it out on her and I mean sexually, and he shot himself afterwards. So she didn't really have a father either and she focused on him. Talk about a girl who has to be touching, holding, loving on a man. If he didn't kiss her on the mouth she holds his face to get her kiss.
With me he makes love. Slow and purposeful, whispering sweet nothings in my ears, held after love making, and wants me to be the one to keep up with him. I've been criticized for cleaning and cooking for him, and making the bed. A nice clean and orderly house and a hot home cooked meal never upsets a man, maybe my German upbringing. But there she is, while I'm cooking she is sitting in his lap. I did not want her as a roommate but he insisted that I had to have her as my sister.
I walked out and there she is on his lap, stroking herself against him. I took the wooden spoon in my hand and whacked her good across her behind. I felt bad afterwards, but she has to stop behaving like that. If I'm the sister, then I'm the older sister. Someone has to set the rules. And he doesn't need to encourage her, although he likes all that affection she hands out.
We are as different as night and day. Two sisters who look nothing alike, two sisters who have nothing in common, two sisters who love the same Daddy and won't give him up. I won't go into how she pushes herself between us, I don't like watching while he makes love to her so I leave and go sleep in the other room. And I have to make the bed in the morning, while she's fixing her face and drying her hair.
My situation was abandonment as a child and growing up without a man in my life. Her issue was far more serious, her mother was beaten up by her father, he took it out on her and I mean sexually, and he shot himself afterwards. So she didn't really have a father either and she focused on him. Talk about a girl who has to be touching, holding, loving on a man. If he didn't kiss her on the mouth she holds his face to get her kiss.
With me he makes love. Slow and purposeful, whispering sweet nothings in my ears, held after love making, and wants me to be the one to keep up with him. I've been criticized for cleaning and cooking for him, and making the bed. A nice clean and orderly house and a hot home cooked meal never upsets a man, maybe my German upbringing. But there she is, while I'm cooking she is sitting in his lap. I did not want her as a roommate but he insisted that I had to have her as my sister.
I walked out and there she is on his lap, stroking herself against him. I took the wooden spoon in my hand and whacked her good across her behind. I felt bad afterwards, but she has to stop behaving like that. If I'm the sister, then I'm the older sister. Someone has to set the rules. And he doesn't need to encourage her, although he likes all that affection she hands out.
We are as different as night and day. Two sisters who look nothing alike, two sisters who have nothing in common, two sisters who love the same Daddy and won't give him up. I won't go into how she pushes herself between us, I don't like watching while he makes love to her so I leave and go sleep in the other room. And I have to make the bed in the morning, while she's fixing her face and drying her hair.
