I'm a bi-sexual woman who's having male trouble. You see, my boyfreind is wanting me to get rid of my girlfriend (whom I've been with longer). He wants me to get rid of her because she smokes ganja, has 3 kids (which i love and i consider my own), and an has a man of her own. My boyfreind believes that it is unhealty for her children to love me. The kids are young and we do not act even remotely sexual in front of them. We planned on telling them when they get older. Or they'll figure it out on their own, kids aren't stupid. Right now, I'm just "aunt".........I guess I'm just trying to get a second opinion that me getting rid of HIM is a good idea.....Is it?