Should I Bottom?

Hi all out there my names Callum & I’m 57 years old.
I’ve been married to a lady for the last 22 years .
Now 5 years old back we went on holiday to a fancy hotel where they had a bidet I’d never used one before but it was my start of finding out I like ass stuff. I ended up directing the small spraying pipe so it actually squirted warm water at my asshole . For some reason I actually found out this made my cock actually twitch .
So later I thought I would actually experiment a little more by pulling my ass cheeks apart so it would spray directly up into my ass. This I found an enormous turn on … and that got me wondering late at night is that what it feels like when a cock ejaculates inside you ?
After that I started experimenting by fingering my ass and found this turned me on too, again causing sexual pleasure & making my penis go hard and twitch ( sometimes releasing pre cum)
After doing this for a while I began to have gay dreams , not only about taking cock but also sucking cock too, which was confusing because I thought I was a straight guy . But realised I must enjoy the dreams because again I would wake up to find I had leaked a bit of pre cum. Now after this had gone on a few times & since I’d progressed to fingering myself with two fingers now, I thought I would broach the subject of my wife fingering my ass while we had sex. Sadly that was not to be , she said it was dirty and it was what homosexuals do . So no joy there.
Again still having gay dreams , very gay with thoughts of not only being fucked but also sucking cock and kissing , plus’ one where I was actually taken by two men, one in my mouth and one in my ass. Again because I found I leaked pre cum , I actually started to try my cum , again thinking what’s wrong with me I’m straight right ?
From there I actually ended up going into my first sex shop, and was a little disappointed to find out they were not like American sex shops with the little booths to watch porn & maybe the odd guys sucking each other off or being buggered . So instead I bought my first vibrating butt plug which I enjoyed using. But after a while I threw it away (worried my wife might find it) well I say I threw it away after a while one year of using it actually. After that I stopped for 3 months , but then the urge got to me again so off to the sex shop I went again and bought a 6inch long, 2 inch wide inflating butt plug which I used for two years and will admit here used it actually while watching gay porn. Which as now wondering about real cock and the thought again of the bidet spraying my ass but of course the thought of cum pumping into me . Even writing it here has made my penis go hard & my foreskin roll back So of course now I wonder if I should try actual gay sex?
Would a gay man like to pop a straight guy’s actual anal cherry so to speak?
What do you guys think ?
How would I go about trying to it without hurting my wife or her finding out , that is if I should try it .
Callum57yoa B’ham uk

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# 81820 - by Callum57 / August 27, 2025

by Ruez2469 on Aug 27, 2025 at 6:06 AM

I have been experiencing the same feelings. I bought a toy, but don't get much pleasure in it. I prefer to watch and stroke and rub my nipples. Maybe I would only like to top. I have had dreams of stroking a cock. Maybe it needs to be baby steps.

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by Anonymous on Aug 27, 2025 at 6:07 AM

Married closet homo here. I've had lots of gay sex but never let a guy pump my ass. Thought about it alot. Love the idea of a guy making love to me missionary. Kissing and such while he's pumping me. I've never gone down that road fearing I may be hurt in some manner and having to go to the doctor and end being outted as a sissy homo. I'll just continue looking for cock to suck and be sucked. That's hot enough for my homosexual desires.

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by Anonymous on Aug 27, 2025 at 9:28 AM

I’m a married man of 24 years. I met a guy many years back on a gay website when I wanted to meet someone through role play.
I wore a suit for work and he liked guys in suits. I pretended I was a plumbing contractor and went to his apartment to survey his “low water pressure “ problem.
After running his shower for a few minutes, I told him I should get in and try it myself. I stripped down got in the shower said he needed to feel this for himself. Once we had washed and played he told each other off and went to his bedroom. He started kissing and sucking.
This went on for four or five sessions over a year. By then he had a special nozzle in the shower to insert. We We would douche and he started to rim me.. That was a new experience for me. One day he stood up after rimming me and slid his greased cock into my ass. Had a small cock which is great for the first time so it didn’t hurt. I was so turned on that. I shot all over myself within a minute. It was a good introduction to getting my ass fucked. He fucks me every time I go over now. He even said he’s going to bring a friend sometime who was bigger than him.

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by Anonymous on Aug 28, 2025 at 10:04 AM

Of course you should try gay sex!

You're already 57. How much longer do you have for this sort of experimentation, realistically?

Eventually you won't get hard anymore, and though you will still be the same beautiful person, others, attracted to superficial beauty, will stop noticing you. In gay life, a man is old by 40 and invisible by 50, except to a small number of young men who gravitate toward daddies. These men are usually bottoms, so daddies are usually tops. That dynamic won't work for you if your goal is to get fucked.

For your own health, which matters at any age, inquire with the NHS or gay charitable trust about PrEP, doxy-pep, sexual health vaccinations, and testing every so many months.

doxy-pep: recommended in the US, less common in Europe, but you can ask

Vaccinations: Men of your generation are unlikely to have had the Hep A, Hep B, and HPV vaccines. The HPV vaccine is labeled for use until age 46, but you can ask. Bottoms are at significant risk of HPV, which causes anal cancer. It is fully preventable with this vaccine. Without prior gay experience you are also unlikely to have received the monkeypox vaccine.

Re: hurting your wife, you want to explore sex with men, and she can't give you that, so technically there's no reason for her to feel hurt or jealous. Of course, it's different in real life. Either be discreet or tell her the truth. Perhaps she has sexual fantasies of her own that she would like to explore independently. At your ages you are probably no longer having sex with each other, so what does it matter. Marriage has got to mean more than where you stick your dick (or who sticks his dick in your virgin bum).

As far as finding men, it's easy: Grinder, Sniffies, or a local cruising spot. Tell them you're straight and married (huge fetish for gay men), don't tell them it's your first time (high maintenance). Douche, and pre-lube, so you can take cock relatively painlessly. You can speak up if it hurts, but don't expect tops to be super-patient, as they have a choice of bottoms.

Most of all, discover yourself and have fun. If not today, then when?

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by Anonymous on Aug 29, 2025 at 7:53 AM

To anonymous August 28th 1004am
Thank you for the advice , I actually looked a little on sniffies and did see a handsome 63 year old versatile gent not to far from myself , who I thought I would drop a text to, your encouragement does make a lot of sense in my mind , thank you.
It’s strange how just the thought of a penis at my back door makes me get a tingle in my own penis.
I think I will have to find out about the prep from the NHS or see if there is a gay clinic anywhere here in Uk that can help .
I really do not think I can actually tell my wife because she is very reserved sexually & because of what I asked her to do once and her reaction .
Thank you also for letting me know I should not say it’s my first time , I did not know it would cause some gay gentlemen to think I would be to high maintenance, I thought they might like turning a straight guy and of course being the first cock to enter my ass.
Again I want to thank you for actually giving me advice as I am genuinely curious to try , having only ever having sex with my wife and her actually taking my cherry .
Yours most gratefully Callum 57

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by Anonymous on Aug 27, 2025 at 5:48 AM

My gf is dom and pegs me with a strap on. She jacks my dick at same time and milks me completely. I'm drained for days.

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by Anonymous on Aug 27, 2025 at 12:20 PM

I’m a married bisexual man that does have a couple of regulars I meet with. I am a bottoming cock sucking whore. They either finish in my ass or mouth, nothing is wasted on a towel.

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