It Is Just Sex For Fun

Until my boyfriend and I had a long discussion, I had never really thought about having sex just for fun. He said as long as I loved him, he could not get upset if I fucked someone else. At first, I thought it was a rationalization for him to sleep with other girls, but it was not. In a nutshell, he said it is just a penis in you and it makes you feel good, so do not treat it like it something that is deeply meaningful. Just enjoy it, and keep on loving me. That is meaningful, for both of us. For others, it is casual sex. Let yourself have some fun without thinking it has to really mean something. I am only 22 and my boyfriend (25) at that point was the only guy I had ever slept with.

It turned out my boyfriend was right. Just to try it out, he set me up with a mutual friend. I was able to see it as just fun and nothing else. It felt great, but he was just a friend. I got it. Since the first time, I have slept with one other guy, I have really gotten off on him fucking me. It is great sexual pleasure and I have fun. But he is just a friend and it is just sex. My boyfriend has asked me to let him know when I fuck someone. I do not mind telling him what I do if he wants to know. He has not fucked anyone else since we initially had the discussion. I guess I would not mind if he did once in a while if he saw the person as just a friend and not more.

Anyway, that is my big confession. Compared to other confessions I know it is not much.