Ok my boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 months now and I love him so much but lately he has been getting on my nerves. I am a virgin still and i'm really nervous because i've heard really bad things about a girls first time. I know he wants rough sex but for a first time isnt that supposed to really hurt a girl? I am so confused and i think i want my first time to be with a virgin to so its not as hard. Can some of you girls give me some advice on first times and how it went please.