Told Her Time To Go Back To Work

We ended up pregnant almost a year into the relationship, I was twenty three and also about a year into my career. We were certainly not planning to have kids at all but I also was not about to just walk away and send money every month. We got married and had another child two years after the first one, we made it and they both are in college. I asked my wife about five months ago to start looking for work, she never went to college and had worked server jobs until we were pregnant, did not want the kids in daycare so she became a stay at home mom which was totally fine with me. Now though, the kids are grown so get a job and start earning some retirement money to add to the end goal.
So now the sex part comes into the picture. She started greeting me when I got home with tell me about your day while I suck your cock and waking me up in the morning for work with a blow job also. She often would join me in the shower also again sucking my cock, was going to work on some days already two blow jobs in for the day. She then played the "Well, if I go back to work....and I finished her sentence saying "Let me guess, no blow jobs and sex all the time"
She then wanted to know just where we were at for retirement, wasn't that enough for us she asked, never enough money I told her and if she works even a twenty an hour job for the next ten years I can retire early. I find it just amazing that I have to explain this to her, she really thinks that people just live off of others while doing nothing.
So she finally found a job, complains all the time about how boring it is and no one she works with is her age, all twenty year old's staring at their phones all day and she needs something more for sure and you guessed it. No blow jobs since she started working.