I guess I just want to ask if any of you have any tips for me?.. I know the only real thing I can do is practice and experiment basically... But anything would be helpful...
My husband says the only trick to giving a great BJ is being intelligent and confident. Intelligent enough to read your partner's response and confident enough to not worry about looking silly. Since you are 16, I'd say you aren't ready yet. Go back to light petting and wait until you are 18 or 19 to enjoy this very intimate activity.
I think 16 is a little young to be giving blow jobs, but it is probably too late for *that* tidbit of advice. I once read the Dr. Ruth said that you should practice giving a blow job to an ice cream cone. It might end up being a bit messier than the real thing, but it allows you to get used to feeling something in your mouth. Truthfully, you don't need to put the whole thing in there to give good head. Half of four inches is pretty damn good. If you hadn't mentioned anything to your bf, he probably wouldn't have known the difference.
I agree that you are too young for this kind of sexual activity, but I will tell you this;
why do you think they call it a "job"?
Believe it or not, it isn't always easy for a guy to climax via a BJ
Thank you for the honest responses and not treating me like a 13 year old boy crazed girl... Or something along those lines. I know it seems like I am young, and I probably am, but you would be surprised. These days girls loosing there virginity at 14-15 years old is normal. I think it is sad really. By the way I am a virgin and glad to say that my current boyfriend of four months is the only one I have even gone this far with; that doesn't really make it any better.
There is no such thing as a bad blow job. Some are just better than others. 16 is not too young for this kind of activity. You just need practice is all. Not every woman masters the art of "deep throating".I've had a lot of blow jobs in my day and enjoyed every one of them. Any guy tells you different is full of shit. You rock girl and keep blowin!!!!!