I busted my wife.
A year ago, by accident, I found her cell phone bill. She usually hid the bill or trashed it. Anyway, I happened to be home and fell out of my chair when I saw she was text messaging some dude in Atlanta. She's redhead. They were trading 100-150 messages a day for weeks.
What do you text about with that many messages? It has to take a lot of time and effort to send that many texts.
When I confronted her she apologized and said he was just a friend. She promised she'd cut it off and never text or talk to him again.
On her birthday and on Valentine's I found more messages from him.
A couple of months ago she told me she had a business meeting in Atlanta. I was very upset, angry really. For the first time I lost my cool.
She promised she was not going to "see" the guy. She promised they had not contacted each other in a year. She promised this and that. I WANTED to believe her, but red flags were flapping and sirens wailing. I was a nervous wreck before her trip.
When she walked out the door the morning of her flight to Atlanta she looked me straight in the eye and promised profusely she was not going to see him. That he didn't even know she was in town.
When she arrived she told me she forgot her cell phone charger. i.e. she couldn't answer her phone while on the trip. I told her she was lying. She denied it, hung up on me and I didn't hear from her for the next two days.
When she came home she didn't talk to me for two more days. She was angry at me and telling me I should trust her.
Well, this time I was waiting for the phone bill. A month later when i looked at the bill, there were tons of calls from her to her Atlanta friend. Some late at night, etc.
I confronted her.
She alternated between screaming and blaming me to crying. She admitted to her affair. It was a black dude.
A year ago, by accident, I found her cell phone bill. She usually hid the bill or trashed it. Anyway, I happened to be home and fell out of my chair when I saw she was text messaging some dude in Atlanta. She's redhead. They were trading 100-150 messages a day for weeks.
What do you text about with that many messages? It has to take a lot of time and effort to send that many texts.
When I confronted her she apologized and said he was just a friend. She promised she'd cut it off and never text or talk to him again.
On her birthday and on Valentine's I found more messages from him.
A couple of months ago she told me she had a business meeting in Atlanta. I was very upset, angry really. For the first time I lost my cool.
She promised she was not going to "see" the guy. She promised they had not contacted each other in a year. She promised this and that. I WANTED to believe her, but red flags were flapping and sirens wailing. I was a nervous wreck before her trip.
When she walked out the door the morning of her flight to Atlanta she looked me straight in the eye and promised profusely she was not going to see him. That he didn't even know she was in town.
When she arrived she told me she forgot her cell phone charger. i.e. she couldn't answer her phone while on the trip. I told her she was lying. She denied it, hung up on me and I didn't hear from her for the next two days.
When she came home she didn't talk to me for two more days. She was angry at me and telling me I should trust her.
Well, this time I was waiting for the phone bill. A month later when i looked at the bill, there were tons of calls from her to her Atlanta friend. Some late at night, etc.
I confronted her.
She alternated between screaming and blaming me to crying. She admitted to her affair. It was a black dude.
