I finally got my wife to admit she was having an affair. I was shocked to actually find out how long it had been going on for and with who. My wife had been having afternoon "meetings" with a much older man that worked in the same office building as her.

My wife is a BBW and was taken by the affection that this gentleman began to show her. He would ask her for coffee and lunches and one afternoon he kissed her in the elevator and things became more intimate from then on. That was 7 years ago and now he is about to retire (my wife is only 34). Lately she has been showing signs of something being wrong. I guess he has started to reject her invitations for affection now that he is going to be retired full time with his wife.

She confessed this to me when I finally sat her down and said WTF is going on.