A doctor really isn't going to make comments about how you look unless you prompt him or he's openly flirting with you.
So, if you don't want to cheat - switch doctors! Maybe find a female doctor.
If you want to explore things a little, dress up next time and say something like "After coming in dressed like a bum, I wanted to make sure you remember I'm you hottest/most attractive/best looking patient." If he says "I already do" or something like that, then you decide how bold to be: "what are you going to do about it..." "I was hoping you'd notice..."
And wear cute underwear!
i definitley don't WANT to cheat, but I am afraid this doctor is going to make me lose my religion!! lol. I am afraid to go to my appointment next week because I have my "female physical", and well..that's NOT the ideal time to be thinking about Dr. Hott. lol
Enjoy yourself fantasizing about this hot doc and if you don't want to cheat leave it at that. Having an imagination never hurt anybody!!!
I'm still of the opinion that you should change doctors completely. It's less stress and less temptation.
Look, I had a scenario play out like this - I worked with a girl/woman (whtever oes't offend you...) and we were both married, loved our spouses, but for some reason had a few akward moments where if felt like if we knew we could get away with it, we'd jump eac other in a second. I finally admitted it to her, and she said "well, maybe we could try it once..." We almost did, but then at the last minute I said "No, this could really be a bad idea."
Now we're still friends, still know we have this attraction thing, and never spend any time alone!
Make an emergency appointment and tell him you lost your cars keys up your snatch and would he be so kind as to remove them?
As a doctor myself who has been in a similar situation with a former patient, the critical thing for both of you is medical ethics. This means that you should tell him "I really find you attractive, and would like to see you socially, so please refer me to someone else for my medical care." After he does that, and is not your doctor anymore, you and he are free to do what you like without jeopardizing his medical license.
Absolutey, I would never want to put his medical license in jeopardy. He loves what he does and I would never want to take that from anyone. The bad thing is...his wife is due to have their kid any second now, but he's always kinda flirting with me. He rubs my arms, stares at me when we talk, and is always telling me I look and smell nice. I do NOT WANT TO BE A HOMEWRECKER by any means. But he's all I think about!
Soooo OP, 15 years later....What did you do? Did both of you play doctor?
LOL